I have always emphasized that when encountering emotional problems, the best solution is to communicate calmly. Even if you cannot be calm, a quarrel is better than a cold war, because the cold war consumes too much emotion. Today we will take a look at whether Aries will have a cold war with you?
1. If you can speak, you can’t bear it
< p> When Aries is angry, he is like a ball of fire. Have you ever seen a fire burning alone without moving? Aries doesn’t like the cold war because he is very straightforward and must speak clearly when he has something to say!For example, you I am angry with him because he forgot to send you off when he came home at night, and I feel that he does not care about you enough. Aries is also very aggrieved. It’s not that you don’t want to give it away, but didn’t you forget it accidentally? I feel like you don’t need to be so angry. You pulled your face and said nothing, turned around and left. Can Aries let you go like this? No.
Whether it’s to coax you or to explain, he can’t let you go so unclearly. Even if you scold him, he still wants you to scold him in front of him now, because if you leave and then have a cold war with him, Aries will feel particularly uncomfortable, unable to say anything, and it will really stifle him to death...< /p>
Aries doesn’t want you to engage in a cold war. He rarely engages in a cold war himself. He gets angry on the spot. His anger goes away as quickly as it comes. He is basically not aggressive and is easy to coax.
2. Will slowly stay away in my heart
Aries doesn’t like the cold war, but Aries does. I will gradually alienate you.
For example, if Aries gives you a gift but you never return a gift, and you treat his kindness as if you are blind to it, Aries may suddenly feel embarrassed because you didn’t wait for him after dinner. He gets angry and then tells you all about his grievances. Anyway, he just can't hold it in.
But when he tells you, he is actually giving you a chance. If you still haven't changed after this, if you leave Aries and go to play with your friends, Aries will keep a distance of one meter from you in your heart. If you only pay for yourself when buying something, Aries will keep a distance of ten meters from you. Just like this, time and time again, Aries starts to slowly alienate you. When you react, you find out why he is not as enthusiastic as before, why he doesn’t tell you anything, and if he does it alone, it will be too late. You Has been eliminated by Aries.
3. When it’s really cold, it’s a real ice cellar
Others engage in a cold war to coax the other party. Maybe it was because he didn't want to quarrel, but he always had a purpose. As I just said, Aries is like a ball of fire. When it is cold, it means it is extinguished.
When Aries starts to treat any of your needs coldly, it means that he really doesn’t want to continue with you, and it’s almost time to pack up and leave.
It is obvious that the Aries who used to look for you several times every day has suddenly become someone who doesn’t look for you if you don’t look for him. He has no passion for chatting with you. He replies casually without thinking and ends the chat as soon as possible. It's too tiring to say a word, and you can't feel any care and love. If you have ever felt the love of Aries, you can feel that he seems to have put away all his feelings for you now, and talking to you is purely polite.
Aries easily avoids the cold war. When he is cold to you, it means that he no longer cares about you.
The above is all about whether Aries will have a cold war with you. Friends of Aries, am I right?