As a working-class person, I don’t just pick up my money. I spend a few hundred on a casual date. I have to buy gifts for New Years, holidays and birthdays, not to mention getting close to girls. Tighten it up. Not to mention how uncomfortable the waistband feels. Today I will teach you how to spend less money on a date.
1. Don’t ask for dinner on a date
First of all, don’t ask for dinner.
Why, because it is easier to trigger other consumption! Night is the time when everyone is more likely to relax after a busy day. It also makes people feel as if the next day is very far away.
After dinner, why don’t you go and take a walk for a while? Anyway, it’s still early and you’re not an elderly person, so why not go to a karaoke bar or watch a movie?
Some boys will feel that eating a special candlelight dinner or other impressive things will increase their value in the girl's heart.
This It also depends on the actual situation. Generally, people who chase her will ask her to have dinner. If you are not special compared to other competitors, then if you treat a girl to a particularly expensive meal, the girl will deliberately drag you along. Hanging you, staring at the way you pay for her.
In other words, if you want to win a girl’s heart, you don’t have to go expensive, as long as you create an “atmosphere”.
To give an inappropriate example, why are things more likely to happen in nightclubs? Because there are confusing lights and alcohol stimulation! So the atmosphere is very important.
2. Don’t be obsessed with saving face
There is a rule for arranging dates, which is to rather arrange less expensive activities. , and don’t arrange activities that are expensive but require group purchases or coupons.
Because this behavior will be defined by her as being stingy and calculating.
In other words, you could have happily chatted with her at a roadside barbecue stall, but you ended up posting on Moments for seven days in a row just to get a coupon for a five-star restaurant. , even if you end up having dinner together, she won't fall in love with you just because this meal exceeds your consumption capacity.
You might as well show your true side happily at the barbecue stall and let her think that you are bold and uninhibited.
Of course, please note that no matter how expensive the meal is, if you have already invited someone else to pay, don’t ask for AA when paying the bill!
Don’t worry about "why men must pay for it" The question is like a woman asking "Why should I have a baby?"
Sometimes a girl will ask for AA, you must judge whether the girl is being polite or really insisting!
No matter what, you will always fail if you rush to pay for it.Wrong, if this girl insists on having an AA with you, it can only mean one thing. She is not interested in you and doesn't want to owe you any favors.
3. Balance the relationship between love and money
These days, it is difficult to clearly explain the relationship between love and money. It's about money.
We used to say that money is not everything. It cannot buy time, health, and happiness. But later we discovered: sometimes it can.
From Guangzhou to Beijing, if you have no money, you can only take the train, which will break your legs in 30 hours.
Rich people can get there in more than 3 hours by plane. These 27 hours are not bought by money.
When you get sick, you can only fight hard if you don’t have money. Rich people can live in the most luxurious wards and use the best medicines. Money can buy health.
As for happiness, I am really unhappy without money, but seeing those rich people traveling around the world to relax, they can buy happiness with money.
Do you think money can buy love?
To be honest, more than 80% of love in the world cannot be bought with money.
I once met a rich woman in the hospital who attempted suicide by drinking two bottles of toilet cleaning spirit at home because her husband had cheated on her.
I once saw a rich second generation crying and throwing money away at the entrance of the university, feeling miserable that his girlfriend had given up on him and left with a poor kid.
To put it bluntly, love is attraction, money can attract, and charm can also attract. Those who appear to be rich despite having a high salary ratio are not able to save money, but can allocate their own money.
Let me be the only one who is very good but not exposed, so that your overall temperament that attracts women will be forced out.
We should not expect a life after driving a Ferrari with one hand. When chasing a girl, it does not mean that you will be able to catch her by spending more, nor is it cost-effective to spend as little as possible. Spending too much or too little will lead to failure. Hurt your image.
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