Many boys enjoy chatting online but die in public offline. Even the reason why he died after being exposed was not because of his "photo cheating", but because of the embarrassing situation where big eyes and small eyes always appear when dating and chatting. So how can you avoid embarrassment when you ask a girl out for the first time?</ p>
How to avoid embarrassment when asking a girl out for the first time?
1. Express more personal feelings
When you ask a girl out for the first time, if you have ideas, don’t be bored. In your heart, speak out boldly.
People’s emotions are contagious. If you are willing to express your thoughts and appear calm and generous, then even if the girl is embarrassed at first, she will be influenced by you later and she will soon relax. As long as you can calmly express your feelings and speak out your thoughts, the tension between both people will be relieved. Moreover, doing so can also guide girls to participate in expressions and establish emotional connections more easily.
2. Prepare small gifts
When you meet a girl for the first time, giving her a small gift not only reflects your Your attention to her can also provide you with ice-breaking topics. If you can suit her interests, you can successfully arouse the excitement of the girl's chat from the beginning.
Of course, giving a small gift doesn’t need to be too expensive. The most important thing is that it can appeal to the girl’s appetite and stimulate her desire for expression. Therefore, when you chat online, you need to find out the girls’ interests and make judgments and choices based on the girl’s personality.
3. Start with the environment
Sometimes you may have prepared many topics in advance. I was so nervous during the meeting that I couldn't remember any of them.
At this time, you have to learn to make use of the environment that the two people are in. As long as you are good at observation and analysis, you will not worry about finding topics. For example, if you are walking side by side on the street and you see the guy handing out flyers, you can talk about the part-time job you did when you were a student. If you see the grandfather and the old lady supporting each other, you can talk about your views on marriage. You can even see You can also chat with cats and dogs on the roadside about pets you have raised in the past and related stories.
As long as you learn this trick, you can switch topics naturally and at will without embarrassment. If the girl is not very resistant to this topic, you can continue the conversation.
In fact, meeting for the first time will be more or less awkward, unless you are deeply in love, but meeting for the first time also means that the two of you have successfully entered the next stage. It's a new beginning. So don’t be afraid, be brave and do your best to avoid embarrassment through action.
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