In the process of chasing a girl, if you do something that offends the girl without knowing it, it will be difficult to chase her. So what are the things that make girls disgusted when chasing girls?
1. Prejudicing a girl’s dress
Many boys have paranoid aesthetic standards and always like to judge other people’s Commenting on clothing, such as:
"You are too exposed in this dress, are you not afraid of catching a cold?"
"Why are you so short in your skirt, are you not afraid of being exposed?"
"Are you wearing lipstick? Are you going out to seduce someone?"
To judge girls in this self-consciously humorous way is to always use your own aesthetic standards. The definition of beauty and dress sense is that girls wearing heavy makeup, lipstick, and revealing clothes are considered bad girls.
Women are beauty-loving animals. If a boy points out his perceived shortcomings without any basis, he will not gain recognition from the other party, and it will also make women feel bored with you.
When getting along with girls, judging the girl’s dress is in itself on the opposite side of the girl, which is a suicidal behavior. Even if the girl’s clothing is indeed a bit revealing, you can give a friendly reminder instead of being wanton. Ridicule.
2. Think that girls are all materialistic
Some boys have deformed values ??and think that all girls are materialistic. Asking for a gift from yourself or asking a boy to treat you to dinner and go out with you is regarded as a financial request, so you think that this kind of girl worships money and material things, such as:
I heard someone else buy something for my girlfriend Such an expensive thing, so I said to this boy sincerely: "You are stupid, buying this thing for a girl"
You can unconditionally accept the kindness of a girl, and being kind to a girl must mean that the other party expresses it to you. Don’t suffer a loss
When a girl asks for something from you, she will say that she is buying it for her, but in fact she will not buy it for her. She will lie and say that she has no money
As long as it is about money, she will Try to be very repulsive, even if the girl is just joking and doesn't really want you to buy anything, she just won't spend a penny on the girl.
Women are not fools. They have their own standards when choosing a mate. If you only think about getting something without paying, although it seems to be diligent and frugal, it is actually stingy. Girls are not will like you.
3. Think that women have to rely on men
Some boys think that women have to listen to men, and they always exaggerate themselves to win the favor of girls, such as:
“Only us men can do this kind of thing.”
“You women should stop interfering in matters between men.”
“Just like you, hurry up Find a man to marry, what’s the use of reading so many books?”
This attempt to exploit gender differences.If you do not promote yourself and belittle women, you will not show your masculine charm, which will only make women think that you are arrogant and boring, and will only become the object of being disliked.
4. Think virginity is the most important
Many boys think that only if they are virgins can they be their girlfriends , if she is not a virgin, then this girl is impure, does not know how to love herself, and is not worthy of herself. For example:
"If you're not a virgin, don't even give it to me."
"Are you a virgin?"
"Have you slept with anyone else before? ?”
Regarding the matter of self-love, we can use it to demand ourselves, and we can use it as self-encouragement, but to impose our own ideas on others and forcefully demand each other, that is gangster logic, this kind of privacy The problem, especially all men who agree with the theory that hymen is equal to excellence, are straight men, and girls will not like it.
5. Girls take their dedication as a matter of course
I understand very well that boys think that women are the ones who care for their husbands, teach their children, and do laundry. He cooks and feels that his wife should take care of herself without any regrets and do all the housework.
Similarly, straight male cancer boys are extremely chauvinistic. They believe that it is natural for girls to treat them well and require them to take good care of their parents. It is not easy for my parents to raise me, even if Even if they scold you and beat you, you should give in to them. For example:
"Just stay at home and take care of your children, and don't go out to work."
"You said I'm raising you at home, and you're still so angry, aren't you just doing housework? ?"
"I'm so tired after a day of work, so you just have to calm down."
"I handle things in a blanket way, and I can't see how much the girls put into themselves, but how much they care about me. However, he cares about his contribution to girls. This kind of straight male cancer boy is something that girls can't avoid.
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