In fact, not only boys can be possessive, but girls can also be possessive. Appropriate possessiveness in love can make people feel that you care about the other person, but if the possessiveness is too strong, it will make people feel depressed in the relationship and want to escape. The following is an analysis of the behavior of possessive girls. If you encounter a possessive girl, I suggest you consider whether you can accept it.
Performance of possessive girls
A possessive girl will generally restrict your normal communication with other girls. She hopes that she is the only girl around you, and then she thinks about you all the time. I cling to you and want to control you in all directions, are you sure you can stand it?
1. You are not allowed to socialize with other girls normally
I had a relationship once in college, and my girlfriend was very possessive. At that time, university club activities were essential, and I even joined two clubs. Once she saw me talking and laughing with a group of people while she was waiting for me at the door. When I walked up to her, she said nothing. I didn't understand what was going on, she asked me to leave, of course I couldn't leave, I had to figure out what was going on.
She cried in front of me for the first time. She asked me hysterically if I could stop talking to girls. I was confused at the time. , and made a confused sound: Huh? "No, you call that talking to girls?" Her tears frightened me, and I began to comfort her, promise her, and promise her. In fact, I already discovered something different at that time.
2. I want to stick to you all the time
Later, we spent too much time together, almost every day. She didn’t even participate in team building, let alone socializing. I can push or push. As long as I get out of class, she will show up on time. At first, I thought this was good. After all, I can see my lover as soon as I get out of class, so happy.
But as time went by, I found that she just didn’t seem to want me to get out of her control. When I got home with her, I expressed my doubts, but she didn't answer me. She just told me that she loved me very much and didn't want me to fall in love with anyone else. I still have the most basic morals in my conscience.
We argued until the early hours of the morning, and finally she asked me to go out. The road was deserted at four o'clock in the morning, and occasionally there was only a car whizzing by. I stood downstairs in a thin down jacket, opposite KFC, but I kept waiting for her to call me. I didn't wait, I just waited for a taxi to take me home.
3. I want to control you in all aspects
After this, I finally have 4 or 5 days I didn't contact her for a while, and by that time, I already wanted to break up. After calming down, I realized that she might just be possessive of me. But I couldn't leave her calmly. She was so kind to me, and I couldn't seem to refuse other people's kindness.
On my birthday, I received a gift from her. It was a small but exquisite lock. At first I thought it was just a decoration, but when we were having dinner that night, she took out the lock. When the key to the lock came out, she happily told me about the purpose of the lock: it is an "artifact" to lock the waistband and prevent cheating. Opposite her, I felt chills and the hairs on my hair stood up. This was no longer possessive, it almost restricted a part of my freedom.
After returning, she hugged me tightly and said the same love words that belonged to her, how much she loved me. But I can no longer feel love. I can only feel that the person around me who made me so excited at the beginning is like a demon from hell, trying to imprison me through chains. Once I leave her control, these chains will Turned into a vicious dog and dragged me into hell.
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