When a boy likes a girl, he will observe her carefully. Unexpectedly, he finds that the girl has a crush on him. He originally thought that in this situation, he would definitely agree to pursue a girl. However, he did not expect that the girl still refused. Why does the girl obviously have a crush on him? But reject your pursuit? Could it be that I got it wrong?
1. Good feelings are not love
Not all good feelings are about wanting to be with you. Having a good impression can equal wanting to be friends with you. I think you are funny and good-looking. Then I have a crush on you. For example, I met a very humorous old lady today. People ask me how I feel about that old lady? I said, I quite like it. You can’t think that I want to date that grandma. Sometimes we can only think of it as a friendship.
2. Because of reservation
First of all, you have to make sure whether the girl really has feelings for you. After all, The three major misconceptions in life are real. If you have determined that she really has feelings for you, and then rejects you, it may be because she wants to test you. After all, girls are mostly the weak side in love, and they are the ones who are chased. She is more cautious, or she is more reserved and cannot agree to it as soon as you express your love.
3. Because of low self-esteem
Even though some girls are very beautiful, they look very strong in front of outsiders. . In my heart, I may not completely trust my own charm. I don’t understand the other person’s intentions, and I am afraid of being rejected, or that I am just being sentimental. There are many reasons why you are afraid that the other party's cruel, direct and devoid of emotional intelligence in rejecting you will cause a psychological shadow on you, you are afraid of meeting a scumbag central air conditioner, and you are afraid of being hurt.
Yoyo: I have liked a girl in the front row for three years. I can’t say how much I like her. However, every holiday, I would chat with her for a few words. We are familiar with each other and understand each other's temperament relatively well. It's easy to talk and comfortable. But whenever I would get lyrical, she would interrupt me. . . . Because she has concerns, her weight is 130cm and her height is 160cm, which makes her feel slightly inferior. I often joke that I am taller than you and weigh less than you, and she replies: See you in debt, see you in debt. . . . It’s your own fault
4. Because you are so carefree
Maybe there are other girls around you who make her feel Disgusted, don't want to get close. In other words, some girls don't like the opposite sex whose relationship between men and women is not clear, or the hesitant boy. If you also like her, you should be aware of the friends of the opposite sex around you and keep your distance. She may be trying to show you that she's jealous or that she hates your relationship with other girls. So I avoid you as a warning. Or, she likes you and wants you to pursue her one step closer to show that you care about her!
If you really like her, you can also feel that she likes you. Even if the girl clearly has a crush on you but refuses your pursuit, you need to first understand what the girl’s concerns are, and then try to dispel her. of these worries. In addition, you need to boldly express your love, tell her how much you like her, and give her enough security so that she can have the courage to choose to be with you.
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