What are the skills for falling in love? I believe that many single men enjoy it but get nothing in the end, because many love consulting companies will tell you that falling in love requires appearance, money, and chatting skills... If these things You have it all, why don’t you worry about not being able to find a girlfriend?
In real love, there are many scumbags who have no looks, lack of money, and only know how to chat awkwardly. They are the same. The reason behind being able to find a girlfriend must be the skills of dating. A scumbag is like a hidden advanced student. He usually doesn't seem to work hard, but the notebook behind his back records many psychological effects of love. .
1. Dark effect
In dimly lit places, men and women dating will not be able to see each other clearly. The other party's expression can easily reduce the sense of alertness and increase the sense of security. The possibility of a feeling of closeness between two people will be much higher than in a brightly lit place.
It is precisely because the scumbag knows this well and remembers it firmly in his notebook that he often travels to bars, KTVs, night markets and other dimly lit places, and there happen to be enough girls in these places. , if you use a few tricks, the right time, place and people will be right, and falling in love will naturally be simple.
2. The Zeigoni effect
The Zeigoni effect refers to the driving force in people’s instincts that has a beginning and an end. The reason why people will never forget their first love is because in the end there is no Together they made a lasting impression. Therefore, it is said that "what you can't get is always turbulent"!
The Caigoni effect in the scumbag's notebook allowed him to learn love skills such as playing hard to get and whetting the girl's appetite, so the scumbag's temperament will always be It reveals a sense of mystery that attracts girls and gives them a desire to explore.
3. Suspension bridge effect
The suspension bridge effect means that in dangerous situations, people will think that they Some of the stress reactions are caused by love. The most typical example of this psychological effect is - heroes save beauties. When beauties are helped by men in danger, they will have the illusion of love.
Of course, scumbags cannot be related to heroes, but they summarized the process of applying the suspension bridge effect in love in their notebooks.
Physiological state: Girls have accelerated heartbeat and shortness of breath due to some reasons.
Environmental stimulus: seeing a male.
Cognitive process: At the same time, this man also has a certain sense of mystery.
The illusion of love: Treat physiological states such as accelerated heartbeat as the feeling of love at first sight.
4. Concession effect
The concession effect refers to, such asIf someone refuses a big request, you can then ask him for a smaller request, and the likelihood that he will give in and accept the request will be greatly increased.
The concession effect is usually reflected in the chat or date between a scumbag and a girl. If a scumbag wants to kiss a girl, he will definitely bring up the idea of ??sleeping with the girl, and the girl will definitely say: That’s not possible! At this time, the scumbag will say: Is it okay to let me kiss you? The girl will acquiesce to his request.
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