Some girls don’t reply to WeChat messages for a whole day, and only say the next day that they are too busy. But is a girl who doesn’t reply to messages for a whole day really busy?
Who has a mobile phone these days? Leaving the body? Basically, if people see it, they will definitely reply to your message.
Even if you are very busy, if you really care about you, you will at least tell you "I am busy now, I will get back to you later."
If you really didn’t see the message, then the other party will at least explain to you when they see the message, “I didn’t look at my phone just now, I’ll look at it now.”
This is really not an ideal situation. This is the most basic social etiquette. The other person doesn’t even want to follow the social etiquette with you, so what excuse are you still making for this person? ?
And this question is really easy to judge: indeed, there may be times in our lives when we read too much news. However, I clicked on it, read it, thought about it and then replied, but ended up forgetting about it. But this kind of situation is really not common at all. Basically, it may happen two or three times. At other times, although we cannot reply instantly, we will always get the minimum reply.
If you are worried that the other party is really busy and therefore cannot see your message, then in fact, you only need to add a message in a few hours to see if the other party still responds—— If the other person often doesn't reply to your messages and every time you explain, he says "I have too many messages and I'm too busy so I can't see them at all", it really just means that this person is perfunctory with you. .
Let’s think about it, is it like this: even if we have been busy for a while, and our friends or partners come to us at this time, the most we can do is put it aside for a while, but we will definitely reply to those who should. reply.
Moreover, it is basically unlikely that every time a friend or partner comes to see us, it will happen to be during the busiest time period; it is even less likely that we will click on the dialog box every time and then mistakenly click on it. Thinking that you have replied to someone else's message... How big of a heart must you have?
What do you think we should do? In fact, it is very simple. If the other party does not reply to your message, you can try to think about whether there is something wrong with you from these perspectives. Do you often chat with the other party when he is the busiest? For example, I am the busiest every day. The time period is exactly the evening period after others get off work. Because I have to communicate with consulting clients and answer phone calls for consultation, so if you come to me at this time, I may not reply because I am consulting.
Are you talking to the other person about a topic that the person is not interested in at all? Maybe the other person is still willing to chat with you when you have nothing to do, but in the first placeIf you talk about boring topics with the other person when there are things to do, it will only make the other person have no intention of replying to you for the time being.
Have you not conveyed the message "I want to chat with you"? For example, some girls will forward some short videos or Weibo to boys. It is easy for boys to simply take a look here. Then I silently thought "Oh, I know" and then there was no news.
If you want to continue chatting with this boy, you need to make a lead-"Look at this, it's very interesting" and "This This restaurant seems to be good, do you want to try it?” “Do you boys really think so?”
If you have no problems with these three points, and the other party is still regular If he doesn't reply to your messages, and every time he asks you, he always says "I'm busy" or "I don't have time", then I still suggest you not to spend any more time with this person.
Because this person may not be really busy, and may not be so busy that he has no time to reply to your messages, but this person’s affairs should be left to people who are much more precious than you.
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