When being with girls, many boys often fall into doubt and want to know if the girl really likes them. After all, I have sacrificed a lot, and of course I don’t want it to be just wishful thinking in the end. Let me share with you how to determine if a girl likes you? Be careful when encountering these situations, the girl may not really like you.
1. They say "I am doing it for your own good", but what they do is hurting you
This type of person likes to occupy the moral high ground, euphemistically calling it " "Everything is for your own good", but in fact it is to satisfy my desire for control and superiority. On the surface, I say "I am like you, aren't I?", but in fact, it is to restrict your freedom and treat you as an object. Don't be fooled by such rhetoric. It is really "for your own good" and will not make you feel uncomfortable.
2. Habitually belittle, deny, and question you
Psychological abusers will habitually treat you If you use various forms of suppression, they may have different purposes. Some are to satisfy your narcissism and experience the sense of achievement of "being superior to others"; some are too sensitive and overreact to every move you make; Experience perverted pleasure in abusing others.
But no matter which one it is, it will have the same result, which is to make you less confident, start to doubt yourself, and feel that everything is your fault.
3. It’s always your fault
In the eyes of a girl who doesn’t like you, everything she does is reasonable and unquestionable. When her mistakes are pointed out, she will either quibble and find reasons to excuse herself, or she will blame the mistake on the other party, or she will describe the impact of the matter in a down-to-earth way, and then backhandedly accuse you, "Why are you like this?" Are you being petty? "In short, everything that goes wrong is your fault, and she is always innocent.
4. It is you who is always repairing the relationship
No matter who is right or wrong, once the relationship arises When there is a rift, you are always the one who is nervous and uncomfortable, but she always looks like she is staying out of it, or simply runs off somewhere. She doesn't care about the relationship between you. Even if it is broken like this, it doesn't matter. As long as you don't make repairs, she can keep being cold to you until she breaks up by default. Usually, it's you who can't hold it any longer and begs for reconciliation, and then she takes the opportunity to suppress you again, saying that you can't survive without her, so that you can be more "obedient" in the future.
5. Your weaknesses are tightly grasped
Girls who don’t like you are very good at grasping your weaknesses, because she usually pays great attention to these topics. She wants to To understand your family of origin experience, and to understand what would make you emotionally collapse after experiencing something, they secretlySecretly write down this important information so that you can use these weaknesses to suppress you in the future.
6. Hot and cold
Many boys can’t tell what hot and cold are. Usually Everyone will ask, "How does she treat me? Is it hot and cold?" Here I advise you not to worry about it anymore. As long as you feel hot and cold, then she is hot and cold. You don't have to care whether she does it unintentionally or intentionally, it doesn't make sense, you just need to be sure that this is her way of getting along, and this mode will bring you bad feelings, that's enough.
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