Some people express support for long-distance relationships while others express incomprehension. In fact, whether they support or do not understand depends on each person’s own attitude. However, I want to give you some popular science about the truth about long-distance relationships. Whether you accept long-distance relationships or not, you can come and take a look.
1. Questions about meeting
Do you think the other person doesn’t come to you because the distance is too far? , in fact, even if the distance is close, they may not come to see you. Because the other party had no intention of doing this at all. People who want to see you will come to see you even though they are thousands of miles away. People who don't want to see you can always find a reason not to meet you, even if they are in the same city.
2. Some people are suitable for long-distance relationships, while others are not.
Some people think that love should be about companionship. I feel flustered when you are not by my side. Although I believe in you, But I always can't help but think about the bad side. I want to hear your real voice, not through a mobile phone. Otherwise, if you can’t hear or see, you can’t see or touch, you have to do everything by yourself, and you can’t see each other for a long time, then what is the meaning of love?
And some people I feel that love means having time to meet and chat, and when there is no time, everyone is busy without disturbing each other. On the contrary, they enjoy this sense of distance. If they see each other frequently, they will be prone to conflicts.
So before you decide to start a long-distance relationship, you need to think about what kind of person you are and what kind of person your love partner is. If you also feel that love should be about companionship, when you need the other person, the other person can quickly appear by your side,
Then try not to start a long-distance relationship.
3. What you need is someone who can reply to your messages
The most feared thing about long-distance relationships What is it? It's not that we can't see each other for a long time, it's not that the pace of life is too different, but that the two people can't communicate.
You encounter a very happy thing and want to share it with the other person. You send the message, but no one replies. The next day, you reply and say that you forgot it yesterday. At this time, your happiness has become Lost. Even if you are not happy, does it still matter?
A big problem in long-distance relationships is that the other person easily underestimates your true emotions. Because he or she is not around you and lacks empathy, in many cases, you Expressing happiness, grievance, and hesitation, he or she cannot give you the response you want. Therefore, whether a long-distance relationship can be successful depends on whether he or she is someone who can respond to your messages in a timely manner.
4. Love is important, but managing your own life is even more important
Don’t regard love as the whole life, and don’t let the other person control all your emotions. Managing love is very important , but managing your own life well is more important. If the worst does happen, at least you have yourself to rely on.
Whether a long-distance relationship is reliable is the same as a normal relationship. The answer remains the same: whether a relationship is reliable depends on your own efforts. The most important thing is to look at it. Is the other party a reliable person? In most cases, it's just that the person is not suitable for you.
Finally, I wish all the long-distance lovers in the world will eventually get married.
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