While you are still lamenting how to find a girlfriend, the girlfriends of the scumbag have already changed one after another. It is indeed true that scumbag men have no shortage of women. Why do good girls like bad guys? Are you honestly looking for a girlfriend but can't find one? Let’s find some inspiration for everyone from scumbag men.
1. Bastard boys and girls have many resources
What does this mean? Just look at how many friends of the opposite sex you have on WeChat. Scumbags don't lack resources at all. The resources are the number of girls.
A good boy’s love model is like this:
Like a girl——) Add her and only pay attention to her——) Pay too much——) Physically and mentally exhausted——) Girl Feel the pressure——) Say goodbye to being single
The relationship model of a scumbag is like this:
Girls you like——) Add them all——) Contact in piles——) No If you like my pass, don’t talk about it now. Anyway, many people——) don’t care——) it’s easy to get divorced.
From a probability perspective, as long as a scumbag has many girls in his life, wouldn’t it be easy to get out of singles? If you think about it, the description of being a good friend would make a good first impression. Besides, the scumbag has a lot of experience and emotional intelligence in meeting so many girls. Isn't it just like having a relationship just for fun?
Anyway, I don’t care. If I don’t like it, I’ll just change it. The more I care, the more effort I put into it and it’s hard to get out of it. This is the difference between a scumbag and a good boy! There is a saying - if you plant flowers intentionally, they will not bloom, but if you plant willows unintentionally, they will form shade. The meaning is almost the same. Sometimes the more people care, the harder it is for them to grasp the scale. They are afraid of making mistakes, so they are cautious and dare not use their abilities.
2. Scumbag boys have strong ability to attract girls
After talking about the first scumbag boy, he has many resources. The second reason is that a scumbag has a strong core strength - he understands love, methods, and girls. When I say strong ability, I mean the ability to attract girls, in these three aspects:
——Know how to get along with girls and fall in love
——Know how to chase girls
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——Knowing what girls want means better understanding of girls
Let me tell you something, you should taste it carefully: Spicy strips are junk food, but why are there so many people who like them? ? Isn't it just because it tastes good for a short period of time, stimulating the taste and producing a refreshing feeling?
Think about it, if a girl has never been in love, or if there are not many people chasing her, if she meets a boy who understands her very well, takes care of herself, and is romantic, it will be difficult to refuse, right? ? Don’t girls want to fall in love or be single? ——She wants it too! It's just that there is no suitable person.
But what about the scumbag’s compatibility—it’s suitable for anyone. Because everything that is naturally suitable has been planned and prepared for a long time. Years of love experience and failure lessons have made them comfortable in love., the degree of grasp of both sexes is several times higher than that of ordinary people, giving you just the right amount of love in your relationship, and making good use of the principle of attraction to surround you with beautiful women.
For example: You are only level 10 in this regard, and you are using a set of tattered equipment to spawn monsters; but the scumbag has already entered the industry A large player who has been level 100 for many years, wearing high-end equipment of flowing emerald to kill monsters. Do you think you, a level 10 rookie, are comparable to a level 100 master at this time?
Of course I am not saying that everyone should become strong like a scumbag, that is not necessary! But understanding girls a little bit, making them feel more comfortable with you and feeling in love will be more beneficial to your relationship. You see, strong ability can provide things that girls like. The two points of providing emotional value and providing hard value are already killing a lot of people instantly.
3. Scumbag men have strong self-discipline and freedom
Ordinary boys may like a girl because of their morals and their family’s upbringing from childhood - they must be single-minded and cannot fall in love. Choose the bad ones, pick and choose. No, do you really think that scumbag men who have no shortage of girls are just like you? Scumbags can also choose, but there are not so many rules and regulations. There are a lot of good people who are choosing the right ones.
Let me first popularize a concept for you: emotional freedom. The so-called emotional freedom, to put it bluntly, means that there is no shortage of girls to like everywhere, and you can fall in love at any time without being restricted by your ability. But there is a misunderstanding here. Don’t you think that if you just pick up a girl on the street, she will fall in love with you? This is definitely a misunderstanding about emotional freedom.
Meaning - there are enough people who like you, and you have the freedom to find a good relationship among the people who like you. But when you talk to someone casually, you need to understand mutual attraction at the beginning.
The difference is that scumbag men don’t pick and choose at first. When they see a good girl, they directly ask for their contact information to increase their resource base, and then they start to attract, find the girl who likes them, and then do the same. If you feel good about it, you can get out of singles.
But good boys often just like this girl and keep attacking this target fiercely. In the end, giving too much often makes girls feel pressured and bored. Self-discipline is self-discipline, but it also imprisons original human nature in a certain way.
In conclusion, this article does not mean that everyone should become Neptune. What I mean is that if you like a girl, don’t hang around her every day. You can also invest more in your studies, work, and sports. To divert your attention, don’t put all your bets on relationships and girls. In this way, you often get twice the result with half the effort.
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