Girls are naturally more reserved, and with a slow-heating attribute, they are like a piece of ice. They always give people a cold feeling, and are relatively indifferent to most people, and sometimes they are even a little incomprehensible. , unkind, many boys want to chase her but are unable to do so.
Today, the editor will bring you an article on how boys can successfully pursue slow-warming girls. Brothers who want to learn from this should be careful next time.
1. Distinguish whether she is slowly attracted to you or indifferent
If she is slowly attracted to you, There is still hope for you to pursue her, but if you are indifferent, no matter how hard you try, it will be of no avail. So you must clearly distinguish whether she is slowly warming up to you or is indifferent to you. You can insist on taking the initiative to chat with her for half a month. If her attitude towards you has always been indifferent and cold, it means that she has no feelings for you. If her attitude towards you changes, a little If it gets better, it means it's a slow fever.
It can also be seen from daily dating. If she can't make an appointment even once, it definitely means that she has no interest in you. If she is slow to get along, she may not be able to make an appointment occasionally, but there will always be a time when she does. Slow-warming girls behave very calmly when it comes to the pursuit of boys, but they are very happy inside but do not show it. What you have done for her, in fact, she knows better than anyone else. Your persistence will slowly warm her up. But a girl who has no feelings for you is like a stone that you can't warm up, cold and hard. So, if it's slow, please persist, one day you will impress her; if it's not, please give up, because no matter how long you persist, you won't be able to catch her.
2. Establish trust and don’t be too impatient
You must not be too impatient when chasing girls who are slow and hot. , first of all, don’t be in a hurry when expressing love. A slow-warming girl will not only not like your sudden love, but it may also make her have a bad impression of you. Then, don’t be in a hurry to express your love, because for slow-warming girls, Girls, if you rush to express your love, there is only one result, and that is rejection. The correct approach is to build trust with a girl during her "slow warm-up period" and then demonstrate high value.
For girls who are slow to warm up, the attraction value you have to pay is by no means less than that of ordinary girls. On the contrary, because girls are slow to warm up, the attraction value you have to pay is not only more, but also continuous. In other words, you have to show your attraction in front of her from time to time to ensure that you can attract her.
Most of the slow-warming girls are introverted, traditional, and rational, and they are more sensitive than ordinary girls. So when facing such girls, if you show high material value, even if it is inappropriate, they will think you are showing off. Instead of showing her what a great car you have, tell her what you understand about car culture; Instead of showing that you are often at home and abroadWhen traveling abroad, why not talk about the gifts you carefully choose for your mother every time you travel.
Slow-warming girls, although they like the aloof male god, can only fantasize about it. After all, neither of them likes active people, so it is difficult for them to get together. At this time, it is He needs to be warmer and melt her heart a little bit.
3. Create environments and scenes, and use routines with caution
Slow-warming girls lack a sense of security. You It's hard to trick her, she will just think you are hypocritical and not sincere to her. At this time, don’t use emoticons, play hard to get, deliberately be cold, make the other party jealous, etc. Maybe other types of girls will pay more attention to you because of this, but slow-warming girls will think you are very carefree. , or she is playing tricks on her, giving up easily and never talking to you again. Therefore, at this time, sincerity can touch her heart the most. Helping her resolve embarrassment in public, helping her out in emergencies, giving her an umbrella when it rains, well-prepared birthday gifts, grieving with her when she is sad, comforting her, etc. will all make her like you more.
When you have been dating for a while, one month, two months, or three months, when she begins to slowly accept you, at this time, you might as well create more unique environments and relationships. scene. For example: go traveling together, drink together, go to a private room to sing together until late, etc.
In short, try to create such an environment, so that the two of you can be in it, and then the subtle relationship will be revealed.
4. When the time comes, necessary rudeness is the magic weapon to win
As a slow-warming woman Said, in fact, when you interact, even if it is very frequent and very close, she will not be very active or proactive, or you will not notice any enthusiasm and impulse in her at all. Therefore, men must understand that when the heat is up, , when the time comes, then necessary rudeness is the magic weapon to achieve final victory.
Maybe she is also looking forward to it...
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