If a girl likes you, it will definitely be obvious. Even if she deliberately hides it, she can't hide it, because it is impossible for a girl to like someone without needs, even if there are no material needs, spiritual needs The companionship, comfort and happiness needs are also indispensable. So what will a girl do when she likes someone?
1. Being noticed
"Why is she inexplicably angry?" "Why is she suddenly cold to me?" Many times, boys are always baffled by girls' petty tempers and tempers.
I obviously didn’t make any mistakes, why?
At this time, did you forget to think about a very simple question? When you first met, did she A girl who is approachable, gentle, kind, and considerate? Why does such a big change happen after getting close?
It’s not because your position in her heart is becoming more and more important!
< p> Many boys will only complain about why the original Bai Yueguang turned into a grain of white rice in the end, but they often ignore that a girl will only be presumptuous with the boy she likes.Her pettiness and unreasonable behavior are not just to gain your attention.
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Some girls are very expressive, but there are always some silly girls who don’t know how to say nice things and will only get your attention by being angry with themselves.
So, if the person you like has a small emotional outburst for no reason, think about it, is it because you haven’t paid attention to her for too long, or you have forgotten your commitment to her, making her feel unwanted. Ignored?
2. Be respected
Being respected is very important for every independent person A kind of need, in Maslow's need theory, the level of respect is even higher than the need of "love and belonging".
In terms of love, falling in love may be easy, but in many relationships, respect is often missing.
Some boys are used to restricting and demanding each other in the name of love. When they are not obeyed, they will lose their temper and become violent, but they do not know that they have pushed girls further and further away.
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Of course, when they do these things, they don’t think that they disrespect each other. On the contrary, it is because they love each other too much.
But if you love someone just to satisfy your own desires at the expense of the other person’s interests, isn’t that a bit selfish?
3. Be understood
Some boys are always accustomed to using their own standards to demand each other, trying to persuade the other party to follow their own code of conduct, but obviously, how can the person being asked be happy?< /p>
Each of us has our own ideas, and it is normal to have differences. After all, boys and girls think differently.
But if you want to win the favor of girls and make your pursuit smoother, you sometimes have to learn to think like girls and think about what they want.
You said that people obviously wanted to eat pears, but you said that pears were not delicious and bought them a bunch of apples.
You may think that I gave you what I think is the best thing, why are you still not happy?
But in fact, the other person may not like what you think is good. And the affection you impose on her may turn into pressure.
What if you just eat your apples and let her eat the pears she likes?
Of course, this is just an analogy, such a simple truth , of course the little brothers will not know it.
However, when it comes to many practical matters in life, we often get confused.
For example, if someone wants to give up her current stable 9-to-5 job and try to start a business, you will think that she is just a hothead and you have to stop her.
What’s the matter? People don’t stop you from wanting a stable job, so why do you refuse to let them go if they want to start a business?
I believe everyone has experienced something similar. Experience, at least seen something similar.
So, I want to say that it is normal for two people to have differences when getting along. They should try to understand each other and seek common ground while reserving differences. Otherwise, being denied again and again will only make the other person's feelings toward you worse and worse.
4. Being needed
At the beginning, the little guy said that girls who don’t have a sense of need are difficult to woo, probably Because they leave boys no room to develop.
People can make their own money, cook by themselves, drive by themselves, and travel by themselves. It seems that they don’t need a boyfriend at all.
Actually it’s because you don’t feel needed, so you think it’s hard to chase her.
This demonstrates a commonality among all boys: they all hope that they will be needed by girls to show their importance. < /p>
These are very happy moments for girls, because it means that her position in your heart is irreplaceable.
For our single brothers, I would like to remind you that even if you have not chased the girl, you must remember that when chasing a girl, you must not only give, but also learn to "request" appropriately so that you can She knows your needs.
If the other person also likes you, your needs are a sign of care to her; if she feels pressure or resistance to your "asking", it means that she is not the right person.
In this way, this is also a criterion for testing whether the other party likes you.
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