In this era when there are more men than women, it is still difficult to find girls in real life, so many people have begun to chase girls through social software, but no matter what social software, we will basically end up Go to WeChat.
After taking the step of adding WeChat, many boys don’t know what to talk about to get closer. , some even made girls feel disgusted while chatting, and were blocked by girls.
Next, the editor will teach you 5 chatting skills for boys to quickly get closer to girls when chasing girls on WeChat.
1. Don’t let being too anxious get you!
Many people are very anxious when chatting with girls. As long as the other party doesn’t reply to the message for a few minutes, they will I will continue to send her messages! Even make voice calls and video calls to bombard the other party! If I am talking about you, then you must stop such behavior immediately!
The correct way to chat: Don’t reply to a message, don’t Post the second one (remember)! If a girl ignores you, is busy, or doesn’t want to talk to you, that means she is not very interested in you. At this time, the bombardment of messages is nothing more than digging her own grave. There’s no need to send another message if you don’t reply, and don’t ask embarrassing questions like “Hey, why didn’t you reply to me last time?” The correct way is to find something to do while waiting for the girl's reply. It is best to forget that you have sent this message, so that you will not appear to be a man who has nothing to do and only hangs around her every day.
Don’t take the initiative to chat with her every day! Many people are very anxious to confirm a relationship with a girl after they fall in love with her! So they take the initiative to greet her every day! This kind of behavior will only make girls feel stressed and will not I will fall in love with you!
The correct way to chat: No one will cherish what is too easy to get! The same is true for women! When we get along with her, being too proactive will only make the other party feel that we are easily available and feel that we are out of reach. If we understand it thoroughly, she will definitely not cherish us! We must learn to be hot and cold so that she can’t guess us!
For example, be more enthusiastic to her these two days, and then treat her more warmly in a few days Be a little cold! For example, when she makes a request, refuse her appropriately! For example, when you are very happy chatting with her, take the initiative to stop chatting on the grounds that something has happened! Girls are born to be animals with a very low sense of security. , so you must take your time when getting along with them!
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Girls respond well, and I am used to taking the initiative to upgrade relationships. Most boys may know today that it is a mistake to kneel down and lick a girl, so they learned the so-called need to control after reading a few love answers. But they often go to the other extreme, that is, regardless of whether a girl’s response is good or bad,He is always controlling his sense of need, because he himself does not dare to upgrade the relationship, so he uses "controlling his sense of need" to rationalize not upgrading the relationship.
What is an upgraded relationship?
When the conversation is almost done, you have to talk about gender topics, such as: talk about what kind of boys she hates and what kind of boys she likes. When the conversation is almost done, you can’t shout anymore. If you have a name, any disciple, girl, stupid girl, stupid girl will have to be improved. Some boys interpret the concept of "honest person" vividly, chatting every day about eating, sleeping, what I did at work, and chatting about topics purely between friends, and they think they have controlled their sense of need.
If this continues, a situation like "We started chatting well, but then slowly ignored me" will happen! Such a boy will also say, "I didn't do anything wrong. I'm very cautious." "It's just because I haven't done anything that I'm cool, brother! Chatting with you is just mediocre, I might as well watch a TV series! In the end, it will only collect the good card, after all, few girls will take the initiative to upgrade the relationship with you. of.
When chatting, find the right opportunity through simple topics to quickly advance the relationship between two people! This is effective chatting! You will only care about the other person every day, but you will never be able to chase her in your lifetime!
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3. When talking about "hi", take the initiative to retreat!
When you were young I always like to keep chatting with girls until I have no topic and don’t know what to talk about. In the end, I found out that the girl had gone to be with someone else. I was very puzzled for a while, but in the end I realized that I had made a fatal mistake. This fatal mistake was: revealing all about myself too early, which resulted in the loss of the mystery of the girl. Feeling that girls are no longer curious about me, they lose their attraction. At that time, they still didn’t know how to play hard to get. Just like the ending of a TV series, it must leave a suspense, so that you will stay in front of the TV on time tomorrow, waiting for the beginning that you have longed for.
The same goes for chatting with girls. If you find that you and her are about to chat more and more, don't talk until there is no topic. Be sure to stop at the point of excitement. You can use the excuse to say, "I still have some work to do here, let's talk about it later, okay?", "Although it's very I want to talk to you, but I have to get up early tomorrow, I'm really sorry, can you tell me tomorrow?" Give a reasonable reason to leave, so as not to disturb the girl's interest. At this time, girls will be curious about your unfinished topics. She will rationalize this curiosity as "interested in you."
4. Habit of exchanging a secret with girls
Girls look forward to being As the only one, expect to be trusted. So I will tell her a little secret during the chat, and hope that she will not tell anyone, and, I will say that she is the only one who knows thisthing person. This secret can be any secret. For example, you have liked your junior high school teacher, or you have been particularly afraid of dogs since you were a child. As long as the secret has a certain story and is a little unusual, girls will be more curious about you. You and she hold this secret together, and this feeling is irreplaceable. This is called "collusion" to find common ground. This behavior is to create a feeling for the other party that you have a common topic.
5. Share your story with her
When you are right A girl is very good. You spent a lot of time and energy on her, and even spent a lot of money. Did you succeed in the end? I think most people fail! Why? If you want to be liked by a woman, just It's not enough to be nice to her! You also need to let her get to know you!!! We usually talk to girls about some common topics, which will let the girl know some basic information about you. But if you want this girl to be more interested in you, then you must tell the other person more of your experiences and stories! At the same time, guide the other person to tell her stories and experiences. This will not only make the girl more Get to know you deeply, and you can also get to know her! If your story is similar to hers, you will resonate with each other and quickly bring your relationship closer!
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