Many times, boys feel that if they are on a blind date with a girl, if they can chat well and like each other, then continuing to contact them will be considered a default relationship. But some girls on a blind date may not think so. She thinks that if they can continue to be in contact, it only means that there is a high possibility that the two people will be together, and it is not considered a default relationship at all. So how does a blind date with a girl count as a default relationship?
1. Spend more time getting to know each other
Under normal circumstances, when men and women are on a blind date, they feel good about each other. The girls on the blind date think that this person is not bad and they can get in touch and get to know each other better; the boys on the blind date think that the girl on the blind date has defaulted on the relationship, because this girl has not rejected me, and we will be boyfriend and girlfriend from now on. The boy will tell his parents that this girl is good, and then both parents will start to be busy with the engagement ceremony and so on. The girl will look confused when she sees this: "I don't even know him yet, who wants to marry him, no, no, no" ." This attitude of the girl will make the girl's parents think that the boy is not good, and the parents of both parties will be a little embarrassed when communicating.
In fact, regarding the question of how a blind date is considered a relationship by default, because the difference in thinking between men and women will lead to different results, regardless of How was the impression during the blind date? You can let the man and woman on the blind date stay in contact for a while. If you find that it is really good, you can advance the relationship and talk about marriage; if you feel it is not suitable, you can also communicate directly between the two of you to avoid involving the parents and causing unhappiness. .
2. The ritual sense of confession
Because most people who go on blind dates are rushing to get married, many people think that blind dates are almost like this. Most boys may think that blind dates are good for girls. I like her very much, and when I get along well with her, I continue to keep in touch, and often meet up with her. If the girl doesn't show any particular resistance at this time, the boy will default to a relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend. It won't be as ritualistic as what I said, and I keep asking if I want to be his girlfriend, etc.
Although it is a blind date, the confirmation of the relationship between the man and woman on the blind date must be formal confirmation from both parties, rather than acquiescence taken for granted. Blind date is just a way to get to know each other. It does not mean that the person who contacts you is your boyfriend (female) friend. If you like it, others may not like it. Therefore, boys can try to express their love to the girl on a blind date and establish the relationship between you, instead of taking it for granted that dating a girl is already a default relationship.
, just added WeChat. I don’t think it’s a relationship, because I don’t like him, and I don’t think it’s a relationship without a formal confession. (I didn’t mean to hang him up. I won’t like any man after I’ve just met him for a day. I’m not the kind of person who falls in love with someone at first sight., I am a long-lasting love type. ) As a result, when this person went back that night, he took photos of my blind date and posted them on WeChat Moments, which probably meant that I was his girlfriend. Damn it, I'm so angry. I thought he was okay and we could get along with him, but then I slapped him in the face that night. Resolutely reject him and block him
If boys still have questions about "how does a blind date with a girl count as a default relationship?", you might as well give each other more time to get in touch, and you can also do it within this time See if the girl on the blind date is really suitable for you, and you can also make the girl on the blind date decide that the master wants to be with you.
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