Blind date is a common way to find a life partner in modern society. However, in the process of blind date, how to judge whether the other party has a good impression of you and whether it is possible to further develop into a romantic relationship? Here are five signs of a successful blind date to help you better understand how your date is thinking.
First, look at the direction of the body and its distance from you. No matter how the other person smiles or speaks gracefully, you must first look at his/her body direction. When she is sitting, even if her upper body is leaning towards you, as long as her feet are facing the opposite direction to you, or are tucked upright, it means that her heart is not given to you yet. If you are standing and talking, you need to observe the distance between the two people. Generally speaking, a distance within fifty centimeters is an intimate distance. However, don't jump to conclusions at this time. Look at her body language to see if it's defensive, such as folding her arms. If she is not wary of you, then there is the possibility of further development.
Secondly, watch the scene of saying goodbye after a blind date. If you want to know whether the person you are dating is having trouble with you, you can watch what happened when you broke up and said goodbye after the date. When you are about to break up, for example, you have arrived at the station, and you walk away in two directions, does she turn around and look at you after taking two or three steps? If she just walks away and never looks back, it means that the relationship between you may just stop being a simple friend or a stranger.
Third, look at the direction of the other person’s gaze when dating you. The eyes are the windows to the soul and cannot deceive anyone. Ask her the simplest questions first, what she likes to eat and what she doesn’t like to eat. What you want to observe at this time is her sight. There is a set of sight theory that believes that when the two emotions of like and disgust are generated, the direction of the eyes is unconscious, but it is specific. Therefore, by observing her eyes, you can understand her emotional baseline for you. Next, ask a question that connects her to you in a natural way. For example, ask her if she wants to go to a certain restaurant with you? Now look at the direction of her gaze. Is it "like" or "dislike"? You can tell if she really wants to date you.
Fourth, see how she responds to your messages. In the testing stage, you can try sending some mood text messages that have nothing to do with work or business. If you reply immediately, it means that you care about each other; if you reply within two or three hours and say that you just met because you are busy at work, then you can continue to pursue it. Otherwise, I suggest you give up. Of course, if the other person doesn't like text messages, that's a different matter.
Finally, see if the other party takes the initiative to leave you a phone number or QQ number, etc. After the blind date, if the other party takes the initiative and says to leave your number, it is usually a sign of drama, and it means that she hopes to continue with you. But if the introducer asks you to leave each other's contact information, but the girl is unwilling to give you a mobile phone number, or just gives you a QQ number, then be careful, she may not be interested in you.
In short, five signal packages that indicate a successful blind dateIncluding: looking at the body orientation and distance from you, looking at the scene of saying goodbye after a blind date, looking at the direction of his eyes when dating you, looking at his reply to your messages, and taking the initiative to leave you his phone number or QQ number, etc. By observing these signals, you can initially judge whether the blind date is likely to be successful. However, the success of a blind date still requires both parties to truly establish an emotional connection and develop a stable and long-term relationship.
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