Knowledge is power, and learning is valuable. When chasing girls, you can not only use some love skills and love routines, but also love psychology to make girls fall in love with you. When love is staged and planned, your Love thinking is already very mature. When you encounter difficulties chasing girls, try love psychology!
1. The Suspension Bridge Effect
When a girl walks across the suspension bridge in fear, she looks up and spots someone of the opposite sex. This is the easiest situation to have feelings, because the accelerated heartbeat caused by the fear on the suspension bridge will be mistaken for others. It is the reaction caused by seeing the destined other half. Just like why a beautiful woman falls in love with the hero who saves her after a hero saves her.
2. The Chicconi Effect
First love is the most ignorant, youthful and unforgettable thing in people’s hearts. The kind of ignorant love that brings about small ambiguity and the beginning of love makes people nostalgic. Western psychologist Chicconi did many interesting experiments and found that most people easily forget things that have been completed and have results, but they always remember things that have been interrupted, unfinished, and have not reached the goal. Still new. This phenomenon is known as the "Cicconi effect."
3. Oedipus complex
Nowadays, the love between siblings is not uncommon, but some people like people who are the same age as their parents. This kind of Oedipus complex Or the Electra complex is also very common. Oedipus and patricide are both Oedipus. He did not know his parents, accidentally killed his father in a game, and married his mother. Later, when he learned the truth, he could not bear the pain in his heart, so he committed suicide. . Psychology uses it as a metaphor for people who have an Oedipus complex. They tend to fight against their fathers to compete for their mothers. At the same time, due to moral and ethical pressure, they tend to self-destruct to relieve pain.
4. Dark effect
Elegant and romantic Western restaurants are the first choice for many couples to date, because in dark places, the dating parties cannot see each other’s expressions clearly. It’s easy to feel less alert and feel safer. In this case, the possibility of getting close to each other will be much higher than in a brightly lit place. Psychologists call this phenomenon the "dark effect."
5. Primacy Effect
The first impression is really important. The primacy effect is The impression left by someone during their first interaction forms and dominates the mind of a girl.
6. The Gurez effect
The Gurez effect illustrates the difference in thinking between men and women. Men and women have their own perspectives on thinking about problems. Later, it became a famous psychological effect of men being attracted by new things and hating the old (or being indifferent to the old). Psychologists call the male's tendency to change his mind when he thinks he's new."Effect". This effect has been experimentally proven in any mammal. Human higher animals inevitably retain traces of this effect. The psychological tendency of men to like the new and dislike the old is not a personality defect, but a profound The physiological and psychological basis. But people have conscience and morality, and it is these things that enable people to finally break away from the animal kingdom.
7. The effect of seeing more
The more familiar you are with it. The phenomenon of people liking something more is called the "more-viewing effect" in psychology. In the 1960s, psychologist Charontz conducted such an experiment: He showed the participants pictures of some people and asked them to look at them. Some photos appeared more than twenty times, some appeared more than a dozen times, and some only appeared once or twice. Afterwards, people who looked at the photos were asked to rate how much they liked the photos. The more times they see a photo, the more they like it over familiar photos they've seen more than two dozen times, rather than fresh photos they've seen just a few times.
8. The law of complementarity
When people can satisfy each other in specific content, they will have strong interpersonal attraction. This is the law of complementarity. In any group, all people with similar personalities will easily cause internal disharmony and disputes. This is because people with similar personalities have similar needs and when they have a need for the same thing at the same time, everyone will have a conflict of interest. .
9. Romeo and Juliet Effect
In Shakespeare's classic play "Romeo and Juliet" Romeo and Juliet fell in love, but due to their feud, their love was greatly hindered. However, the oppression did not make them break up, but made them fall in love deeper. This phenomenon is called the "Romeo and Juliet effect". The "Romeo and Juliet effect" means that when external forces interfere with the love relationship between the two parties, the emotions of the two parties will be strengthened, and the relationship will become stronger.
10. Projection effect
The so-called projection effect refers to judging others by oneself, believing that oneself has certain characteristics, and others must have the same characteristics as oneself, projecting one's own feelings, will, and characteristics onto others and imposing them on others. A cognitive disorder. In the process of interpersonal cognition, people often assume that others have the same attributes, hobbies or tendencies as themselves, and often take it for granted that others know what they are thinking.
11. Self. Selection effect
What kind of choices determine what kind of life? Today's life is determined by the choices made 3 years ago, and today's choices will determine the life 3 years later. This is the self-selection effect. Once you choose a certain path in life, you will have the inertia to continue on this path and it will continue to strengthen itself.. The impact of selection effect on life is huge.
12. The ball-racing effect
We all know that the harder you use to bat the ball, the higher the ball will jump. The implication of the ball-racing effect is: the greater the pressure a person is under, the higher a person's potential is. On the contrary, the lighter the pressure, the lower the potential. So if a couple quarrels and one party calms down first, the outcome of the matter will be much better.
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