In fact, there are some time limits for chasing girls. Those girls you have been chasing for a long time but can't catch up with, you may not get any results no matter how hard you persist, so stopping losses in time is also a necessary skill. So here comes the question: How long does it take to give up chasing a girl? Let’s analyze it from several aspects.
1. Set a deadline for yourself
I am a very purposeful person. When I chase girls, I will give myself a deadline. If the time is up and I still can’t talk, I will force the attack. I would ask her: How do you feel about me? As long as the girl responds with a good attitude, I will continue the conversation. If I feel that I am not a good person, I will not continue to talk about feelings and just stop giving.
You may think I’m a scumbag, that’s fine. I just think it’s better to change your perspective than to change someone else. I like a certain type of person, not just one person. She and I have not been together for a long time, how much love can we have? Do you think it’s possible to fall in love with you after just a few words? I don't believe it. I don't think there's a problem with those kind of comments about love, but it just doesn't suit me.
I am a love-minded person, and I really don’t like girls who use the excuse of development to test me and make me keep giving. I want a love that goes both ways. I am the only one who pays for it. You are watching from the side, so it is better to find someone else. Love is nothing but self-hypnosis. Is it really because of love that most people are reluctant to let go? No, I just fell into her trap. I really felt that she was considering whether she was suitable. After she had paid a lot, she refused because she was unwilling to accept it. That's all.
In other words, if it feels inappropriate, I can just leave.
Second, see if there is two-way giving
Whether it is between friends or lovers, they all give to each other. , I treat you to a meal, you treat me to a meal, or you are valuable, I often ask you for advice, in return I treat you to a meal, I accept, I am willing, and I am very happy. Then if you can't give me value, then why should I give it unconditionally, right? You are my girlfriend, so I think it's okay for me to give it, and I'm happy with it.
But I spend money to treat you to dinner, hold hands to see your face, and feel that we are not suitable, so why should I continue to pay? To be a friend, you have to act like a friend. Don't be a blind person when paying. You said you will understand slowly, but you also have to pay for it. For example, you care about me, you want to know about my life, and you are willing to hang out with me. This is the true meaning of considering whether I am suitable or not.
The kind of person who stays at home all day long and uses Douyin, and only responds to you when chatting with me, oh, oh, um, or whining about anything, you know the devil. She just wants to prostitute you for free and consume you. I'll catch you first, hold you steady, and let you continue to give, and see if you can meet someone more attractive. When the time comes, the girl will say: I feel like we are not suitable, you are a very nice person, let’s be friends. Where do you go to reason?
I usually feel comfortable chatting with each other for a period of time when I am in pursuit. I will make a statement to the other person: You can consider it, but you have to give me a specific time. , is it seven days? Or half a month? Or a month? Just say that I am impatient, and I will not talk about it.
When boys are chasing girls, they are not here to negotiate. You must only be friends. If you want to fall in love with a girl who has the right outlook on life, then if you love her well, if a girl wants to consider it for more than 30 days, she will definitely have a spare time.
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