Boys should have experienced the duplicity of girls. Many things can only be understood after a heart-to-heart talk with a girl. For example, if you think a girl is being cold and ignoring you, it is actually because the girl likes you and is afraid of her. His thoughts were seen by you, so he acted coldly towards you or even ignored you. Let’s talk about why the more girls like you, the more they ignore you?
1. A girl is testing whether you like her or not
Let’s bring it in, if you are an introverted and passive girl, you have a crush, and the other person is also very kind to you. , but you're not sure whether he treats you differently out of liking or out of pure politeness and kindness. Therefore, in order to observe whether you are different from others, you will intentionally give up some opportunities to actively contact him to see if he will show kindness to you when you do not express his position or even be cold, so as to increase your feelings for him. confidence.
Prerequisites for meeting the above conditions (including but not limited to): ① The girl’s personality is calm and introverted, not emotionally proactive, and has strong self-esteem. ②Boys are very popular and have good relationships with the opposite sex, but they have no clear feelings towards girls.
Although she ignores you, she will be super happy when you take the initiative to find her.
2. Girls think there is no hope of being with you
Some girls do like you, but But it's the kind of love that "I don't see you". She will miss you in her dreams and look directly at you from the other side of the screen, but she will not behave or cheat in front of you, she will just walk past you indifferently. Girls are a body of contradictions. Maybe you haven’t confessed your feelings to her, maybe you never take the initiative to say hello to her, maybe there are many girls around you, or maybe you are very “far away” from her, no Feeling of security, she won’t trust you with everything.
I just like to be ambiguous with you and express my feelings a little bit. So, either have a romantic confession, continue the ambiguity, or cut off contact and find each other's mother. Since you are a man, you must be responsible. Don't make the girl you like sad, let alone deceive her feelings. What you have to say now is to let her clearly feel your feelings. No matter how much you say, it's useless. It's better to take more actions.
3. Girls have many concerns
Maybe most boys will think that if they like someone, they should take the initiative to pursue them. , they want to be together, but girls may be much more cautious about relationships. She will have a lot of worries, and she is afraid that she will lose her value after revealing her feelings for you.
There is a girl friend who likes someone, and every time she will tell our other friends: Well, it’s so uncomfortable to wait for news about him, but she doesn’t want to take the initiative to chat with him, and she doesn’t want to talk to him in any way. Only by chatting can he not make the other person feel annoyed. She chatted with him untilA small spark, a fire for conversation. If we don't talk today, the spark will be broken. But she didn't want to chat specifically for this, she said: It would feel like she was chatting with him just for this little spark. Although she may have a good impression, she doesn't want to admit that this good impression is just like her. She felt that even though she liked it, it felt inappropriate and impossible. She has many concerns. But I know that if there is no contact and she stays away from him, she wants to chat with him again. If the other party's response is not positive, she may feel that she has annoyed him, and she is afraid of being disappointed and lost.
The more a girl likes you, the more she will ignore you. This is actually because of a girl’s natural insecurity, which makes it difficult for her to behave like a boy. Just as courageous to reveal one's true feelings. If you really like her, let her trust you and accept you.
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