Honest boys always give people the impression that they are submissive and lack self-confidence, so they are always disliked by girls. But girls don’t like honest people. Is it really just because of these two reasons?
1. Why girls don’t like honest people
Some boys are really honest. Girls say that I work very hard. I'm busy and don't have time to chat during the day.
As for him, he would just ask someone after get off work to say: Do you want to have dinner together tonight?
When the girl sat there during the meal, he started to do all kinds of things. Zhang Luo, pour the water, get the seasonings, and pass the tissues;
When we were chatting, I saw that it was quite late, so I was afraid of delaying the girl’s sleep, so I took the initiative to say goodbye;
Let’s go out together. When playing, let alone holding other people's hands, when they are close to each other, they quickly walk to the side.
Are you saying they really don’t want to get closer to girls?
Of course they do. But people always put girls’ feelings first.
This is true honesty, isn’t it?
In the eyes of others, they may be dull, but they know how to be sincere to others; they may not be rich, but they are down-to-earth; they may be clumsy, but Know how to take care of girls' feelings.
How can such a boy be annoying? It is true that girls feel that this guy is very reliable from the bottom of their hearts.
However, are the many boys we see in life really honest?
They keep saying that they are honest, but in fact it is just because their strength cannot satisfy their desires.
When a friend took him to a bar, it was not uncommon for him to flirt with other girls.
Even if they don’t have money, they can’t stop them from chatting with pretty girls online.
You say this, can this be called an honest man?
2. How do honest boys counterattack< /h2>
Of course, if you are the "really" honest type, you should also think about why no girl likes you?
As long as you are good-looking and have a good figure If you are more well-proportioned and well-groomed, you will probably be praised for your good looks.
If you are talented, there will be no shortage of girls around you to admire you.
Therefore, it is because you are too ordinary. If you want to counterattack, you have to work on your own charm. For example:
1. Improve one’s competitiveness
When it comes to attractiveness, appearance is the first influencing factor that cannot be separated at any time.
Whenever you go out to meet people, put your hair in order, iron your shirt, and put some thought into your outfit. Then you will seelook.
Of course, competitiveness is reflected in all aspects. For example, if you improve your professional abilities and have a skill that you can use, you will have the confidence to speak, right?
Anyway, no matter what you do, when other boys just lie in bed ordering takeout and playing games , when the garbage is not taken out, even if you have nothing to do, read a book, play ball or something, at least you have your own life.
When we stand in front of girls together, you will definitely be the one who stands out.
It’s not that girls don’t like honest boys, they just don’t like boys who are ugly, lazy, poor, unmotivated and think they are just honest boys.
2. If the hardware is not enough, take the initiative to join in
Too many boys see the girl they like. He is very anxious and wants to confess his love right away, and then the other party will preferably agree to him right away, and everyone will be happy.
In fact, the odds may be smaller than your chance of winning the lottery.
Girls are very sensitive. After receiving your signal, they will definitely think about it in their hearts: Hmm? Is this boy interested in me? He usually looks pretty good and is a pretty cool guy. A steady person, how about understanding?
If a girl thinks you are good, she will also want to give herself a chance. After all, she also wants to be single.
Then the question is, how to release this signal?
In fact, it is very simple, grasp one criterion: strengthen the connection as much as possible within the scope of your reach.
For example, if you only have someone’s WeChat account, then use your circle of friends and make more comments. As long as she replies to you, it’s a good opportunity to deepen your impression.
I accidentally saw some hobbies and other things she posted. Pay attention to them and share some relevant information with her when I have the opportunity.
3. Learn to show yourself
Honest people are often more reserved. This is not a shortcoming, but it is a certain Learn to show off your inner beauty.
After all, if we want to attract girls, we still have to show some charm, otherwise how can girls understand you?
For example, you can sing well, but you have no chance to sing to her. But what should we do?
You can record a song yourself and send it to your circle of friends. When she hears it, she will think, oh, it’s good. Is it possible that the seeds of this good impression have been planted?
Or you can draw well, play the piano well, play ball well, like running, fitness, reading, etc., etc. Show it in your circle of friends.
Speaking of which, everyone can really make good use of their circle of friends, even if you are only visible to her, right?
Don’t compete with yourself, ah, what am I? If you don’t post in Moments, then you mightMany performance opportunities will be missed.
It would be fine if there are offline opportunities. For example, it would be better if you two can see each other often. Even if you just do her a small favor and let her see your gentlemanly and polite side, it will be an opportunity to accumulate goodwill.
You can actually show yourself anytime and anywhere, so you must continue to enrich yourself and ensure that you really have something to show.
Just like wearing the best-looking clothes when meeting a girl you like, package your inner self well and make it become a part of you. Then when you meet her, your kindness will come naturally. Revealed.
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