Because of my introverted personality, I chose to go on a blind date, but I found that even on a blind date, I, who was not good at words, could not let go. So every time the blind date ended, I found that the other person was lukewarm. How can an introverted boy successfully date?
1. Give yourself psychological hints
Introversion is generally caused by inferiority complex. When it comes to dating girls, you first need to give yourself confidence and overcome this inferiority complex. Don't think that introverted people who don't like to talk are not popular with girls. You must know that girls like introverted men as much as they like a man who can talk and talk all day long. Men who make them laugh, especially in the later stages of attraction, are introverted boys whose thoughts, connotations, maturity, stability, and elusiveness are fatally attractive to girls. Therefore, the fact that this blind date girl is lukewarm to you is just because you are not good at expressing yourself in words and have not let her see your interesting side.
So how can you become more confident?
(1) Pay attention to your appearance and maintain your mental outlook
A crisp suit will make a man dignified. To improve your self-confidence, you can also start with decoration to improve yourself from the outside to the inside. When your appearance is praised by others, your self-confidence will definitely arise.
This is just an example. The key is not what kind of clothes you must wear, but that you have a different image every day. Research shows that women not only care about what they wear, but also care about what the men around them wear. When you change a contrasting style every day, women will be confused and become strongly curious about you. Some even They will also take the initiative to talk to you.
(2) Practice looking at others squarely
Looking squarely at others will tell them: I am honest and aboveboard, and my words It's true, you can trust me. You need to let your eyes work for you, which not only increases your confidence but also earns you trust.
(3) Practice speaking in public
Speaking in public can quickly exercise our self-confidence. Once we have the opportunity to speak, we must seize it at all costs. Just say what you need to say, no need to think about what you are talking about, as long as you dare to say it, show your confidence. Do this again and again and your confidence will grow. This is the “vitamin” of faith.
2. Try to invite
For example, when the atmosphere of your chat is pretty good, you can Appropriate suggestion: XXX has recently opened a new restaurant. I heard that the food is good, the environment is good, and it is cheap. Let’s go have a meal together or there is a new movie released recently. I saw you said in the circle of friends, let’s go together in the evening!
< p> If the invitation fails, there is no need to retain it.She should not be discouraged, she should maintain our demeanor, and then answer her gracefully: Okay, then next time we have a date, I will just make time to have sex, to give the girl a feeling that you are not the only girl.If the girl on the blind date successfully accepts the invitation, then you can open up the woman’s chat box during the date. After all, chatting skills cannot be developed overnight, not to mention that we are relatively introverted, so we just let her talk and listen. In fact, most girls need a good listener.
3. Don’t act too hastily
Why do introverted boys easily fail when chasing girls? In fact The most fundamental reason is that they are too "anxious". Generally speaking, introverted boys will choose to confess to a girl after getting acquainted with them, but girls often reject boys due to various considerations. Therefore, introverted boys should not be too eager to confess and confirm their relationship. In fact, they should stay calm and get to know the girl more and chat more.
Occasionally send her heart-warming words such as "Good night", remember not to say too much, but it must be just right. Such a warm man is still very attractive to most women, and it is easy to chase the girl they like.
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