After the blind date, the two parties chatted on WeChat and felt that they had a good conversation. I thought that the relationship between the two parties was a matter of course, but every time I made an invitation, the other party was unwilling to come out to meet. What should I do in this situation?
< p style="text-align: center;">The reasons why blind date partners only chat but do not meet each other are generally the following two reasons:
1. Treat you as a spare tire
p>Some boys are typical pleaser personalities. When they meet a girl they like, they want to please her, and then try to establish a romantic relationship with her through pleasing her. As everyone knows, this will only make you become a bitch. You must know that your blind date only needs to spend time chatting with you on WeChat, and there is no need to spend other extra energy, and you let her experience it on you. Without the feeling of being in love, she only treats you as an emotional trash can and spare tire.
2. Going on a blind date with you is just to deal with family members
In today’s society, there are more men than women. Single men are a common phenomenon in real life, and many boys have fantasies about falling in love. Symptom, what you call a heated fight is actually just a girl's polite response. It is normal for a girl not to come out to date you.
Moreover, a pretty girl will have countless suitors around her. Maybe she already has a boyfriend outside, but because of the If you don’t agree, she can only go on a blind date, and chatting with you on WeChat is just to deal with family members. If this is the reason, it is normal to only chat and not meet.
So how should we deal with the girls on a blind date who only chat but don’t meet?
1. Communicate sincerely with the girls on a blind date
It is said that women have deep hearts. , women's little thoughts are much more complicated than men's, and people's minds can never guess. If you keep guessing about a girl's thoughts, then you will never be able to date a girl.
So we might as well put down our dignity and communicate with the girl sincerely, and ask the girl why she doesn’t go out with you to meet and date. Is it because she is dating you just to cope with the family, or because she has no feelings for you at all? , just talk it all out and you will be able to untie the knot in your heart. If the two of you are really not suitable for each other, then just continue to find your next relationship without delaying each other.
2. Show attitude
Because there are more men than women, many boys have no attitude when pursuing girls. , will only blindly flatter and please girls, blindly pleasing girls has no sense of boundaries in social interactions, and a girl will not experience the feeling of love with you, so she will treat you as a backup until she finds the prince charming in her mind. will abandon you.
If your blind date puts you in the backup category, then she is playing with or deceiving your feelings. You andIt would be a waste of time and energy for her to continue.
Therefore, we must dare to express our attitudes to women. Men who dare to express their attitudes are confident and assertive. Only when women are with him can they feel a sense of security. You can say to girls like this: "If you have always been unwilling Meet me, then I don’t need to waste my time on you.”
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