Have you ever had that moment when she appeared in front of you at a party or when there were many people, but you didn’t dare to strike up a conversation with her, and you only regretted it when you lost her? If I told you four ways to strike up a conversation today, would you take it seriously?
According to the risk-reward system from low to high, we can divide the conversation opening into four types:
1. Inquiry-style chatting
2. Asking for opinions and chatting
3. Situational chatting
4. Direct chatting
Inquiry-based chatting
Features: low risk, low return
Example: Hello, how to get to XX road? What time is it now? Clicked?
Girls usually reply to questions like this,
But when you ask for her phone number instead,
Because it has nothing to do with your problem. Any relationship,
She will feel it is unreasonable and reject you.
Soliciting advice and striking up a conversation
Characteristics: complex and time-consuming
Example: Hello, I want to choose a gift for my sister, can you give me some advice? ?
There are relatively many conditions required when soliciting opinions,
1. She must be interested in this issue
2. You must have a certain sense of humor
3. You have to spend more time talking
Situational conversation
Characteristics: strong purpose, easy to arouse alert
Situational conversation
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Start with things in your environment. For example:
A. What kind of drink is this?
B. Is that XXX (name of a public figure) over there?
C. I like it very much This music.
In fact, most men use situational opening remarks,
Most pretty girls have calluses on their ears because of this.
Talk directly
Characteristics: sincere and direct, high success rate
Direct opening It seems that the risk factor is high,
But it can show her sincerity and let her take off her guard.
Today we will focus on sharing this technique:
1. Directly indicate your intention:
“Hi, hello”
What should be noted here is that no matter how nervous you are,
You must maintain a certain smile,
There is a saying that it is better not to hit the smiling person,
As long as you smile, at least the girl won’t think you are a bad person.
2. Explain the purpose of your visit and why you want to get to know her.
That’s it, I saw you passing by when I was waiting for my friend,
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I thought you were quite friendly. I thought about it for a minute and decided that I should come over and get to know you.
First of all, we need to explain where we come from. ,
I saw her while chatting with my friends,
instead of just waiting for the prey to take the bait.
Then I told her why she came up. Get to know her.
3. Remove her defenses
If I don’t come over to get to know you, I will when I go back. Regretful.
This sentence can not only help the girl adapt to your presence,
it can also further show her sincerity:
Sometimes she will Reject you reservedly, for example:
"You came here because you lost in a game with your friends. ”
“We didn’t know each other before, so that’s not good. "
"I don't call strangers. "
Two solutions are recommended here:
Deny + retell the feeling of seeing her
"You came here because you lost in a game with your friends Bar. "
"No, I just saw you while chatting with my friends. I thought you were quite friendly, so I came over to say hello to you. ”
“Do you often meet girls like this? "
"How could it be? It's just because I met you today. "
"Friends never know each other + retell the feeling of meeting her
Female: "We don't know each other. Isn't that bad?" ”
Male: “It’s fate that we meet each other, and we get to know each other gradually. ”
4. Interact with her in a timely manner
“Are you here for shopping (eating)?”
Ask her in a doubtful way , take the initiative to start a small talk,
Chat around the situation near you,
such as the neighborhood, the weather, etc. Keep your words brief,
and then follow the girl’s reaction. Decide when to leave.
If you are good at talking and have a good attitude,
and the girl is in a good mood, you can chat normally,
and even make an instant invitation. /p>
If you are not in good condition today, you have to go to the contact information.
"I feel like chatting with you, so add me on WeChat."
It is better to leave in time and keep it. What a wonderful encounter this time.
"Well, my friend is already here. Next time.Let’s talk again”
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