If the first blind date gives a girl an unpleasant blind date experience, then the girl may be rejected by you from the bottom of her heart, so next I will share with you some dating skills to help you Had a pleasant blind date experience.
1. Chat skills
Before asking questions, add feelings or comments and give a simple example For example, if you want to ask a girl how old you are, wouldn’t it look very dry if you ask directly like this? So you can ask like this: You feel so young, are you born after 2000? If you ask a girl about her mood in this way, you will instantly pull her into your conversation. When a girl's mood gets better, she will naturally talk to you more.
For the same reason, let’s take another example. For example, if you want to know what a girl’s hobbies are, you can say this: For a girl like you, do you usually like to play games? You If you ask a girl in this way, she will receive more signals. She will think: What kind of person am I? Who are people like us? What kind of girl am I in your heart? After that, she may go Asking you questions will make it easy for girls to continue chatting with you. If you have learned the first point, then it is not a problem to let a strange girl chat with you for half an hour or an hour.
2. Pay attention to details
Always observe girls’ emotions and resolve embarrassment in time. For example, you can follow Will a strange girl feel nervous when going on a blind date? In fact, she will be more or less nervous. This is normal. But do you know? Girls will be more nervous than you, so what should you do at this time? In fact, the best way is to ask her directly: What's wrong with you? I think you are a little nervous? Then continue: Don't be afraid, I'm not a bad person, and I don't eat people. I'll buy you a cup of milk tea later and you won't be nervous after you finish it. Believe me, after you do this series of actions, a girl's favorability towards you will instantly increase.
3. Learn to lead
Don’t respect a girl too much. I found that many brothers do this too well and respect girls too much, so that they appear to be too opinionated. . For example, what do you want to eat, what do you like to eat, where do you want to play, etc. Before making a decision, you should ask the girl for her opinion, for fear that the girl will be unhappy, but in fact, girls don’t like to make decisions. Like the feeling of being led. So we can take the initiative and make our own decisions about what we want to eat and play. For example, you can say: That store seems to be delicious. You must have never eaten there. Let’s go and take you to have a try. In other words, that place is very interesting and the scenery is beautiful. I will take you there later. This feeling of leadership will instantly release your charm.
4. Dare to release your interest in her
Bravely release your interest in her When you realize that a girl has a crush on you You must not be cowardly, you must strongly express your interest in her. Of course, I don't mean to tell you to express your love directly, or to send red envelopes and gifts, but to express it in words. Feelings about her. For example, after you two go on a blind date, you can send her a message like this when you get home: I had a great time getting along with you today, but the time was too short. If there is a chance, I will take you with me again. Go somewhere and have fun. The purpose of saying this is to let a girl feel how you feel about her. When a girl receives your signal, her emotions will be infected, and this ambiguous emotion will arise.
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