When chasing girls on WeChat, we often encounter situations where girls do not reply to WeChat. In this case, is the girl pretending to be reserved to test the boy, is she busy with something, or is she not interested in the boy?<br/ >
So how should we tell the difference at this time? To know if she is testing you, we need to look at it dialectically.
If she is really testing you, then not replying to WeChat is a waste test.
After all, in today’s society, there are more men than women, more monks and less flesh. A girl may be surrounded by countless suitors. If a girl doesn’t reply to your WeChat message, you will be worried about gains and losses, bombarded with text messages, and even have nothing to do with you. If you ask a girl why she doesn't reply to your WeChat message, your sense of need will be fully exposed in front of the girl. In other words, if you fail the waste test, your expectations and attraction in the girl's heart will decrease.
Moreover, girls in relationships are very possessive. If they don’t reply to your WeChat messages, it is to test her status in your heart and see if you care about her and like her. This situation is common in relationships or ambiguous relationships. In this situation, the two people liked each other but did not pierce the window paper.
To deal with such a waste test, we can:
1. Be aloof h2>
Many boys start to become impulsive, impatient, and naive when they encounter girls who don’t reply to WeChat messages. They try to win the girl’s sincerity through bombarding them with text messages, but the reality is often contrary to their imagination, and they become obsessed with each other. Beating you up will only alienate girls from you.
Therefore, it is better to be aloof when a girl doesn’t reply to WeChat. Don’t let the girl feel that you are indispensable to her and create a feeling of detachment for her. On the contrary, you may have a chance to capture her sincerity.
Is it a test for boys if girls don’t reply to WeChat? Teach you 3 tricks, boys with high emotional intelligence will deal with it this way!
2. Improve yourself
When girls don’t reply When replying to your WeChat message, you can use this time to improve yourself, such as creating a high-quality circle of friends and showing your rich life and work in the circle of friends; or gathering with friends, traveling together, and broadening your horizons. Social circle and knowledge.
In this way, you can subtly improve your emotional intelligence and social intuition. When you chat with girls, you can easily understand their subtext and know when to enhance the relationship and when to leave at a high value.
3. Get to know more girls
You must know that if you like someone, she will do it even if it is too late. Reply to your message. Many times if a girl doesn’t reply to your WeChat message, it means that she is not very interested in you, and you may not have anything that attracts her. As the saying goes, "Heaven"There is no grass anywhere", it is better to give up and find the other half that is more suitable for you.
As the saying goes, "What you can't get is always the best", if you really want to be with her , then you will have to put in more effort on the road of chasing, and it is difficult to wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep by being moved and sincere. Knowing more girls can allow you to fully understand the heart of a woman and reduce your sense of need and utility in chasing girls.
If it is not a test of you, it is because of some objective reasons or not being interested in you.
You must know that love is a mutual attraction and mutual selection. Process, if you have nothing to attract girls, no matter how rich, handsome, or flirty you are, girls will have no desire to reply to your WeChat messages.
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As we all know, girls are emotional beings. Their moods are like the weather in June. Maybe your inadvertent words have offended her, and she doesn’t want to reply to your WeChat just to vent her anger.
And sometimes not only do we boys not know how to chat, but sometimes girls don’t know how to chat with boys. Maybe she doesn’t understand the topic you are talking about, and she simply doesn’t reply to you to avoid embarrassment; maybe you don’t. The topic of conversation was too explicit, and the girl didn’t know how to reply out of reserve.
Everyone has their own life and work, and they have their own independent private space. It’s possible that her phone ran out of battery. Or there is no signal, so she cannot reply to your WeChat message in time; maybe she is working overtime or in a meeting, so she cannot reply to your WeChat message in time; maybe she is sleeping or shopping with her friends, and is not looking at her phone, so she cannot reply to your message in time, etc.
At this time, we can’t be too anxious, we just need to wait patiently, after all, we can’t eat hot tofu in a hurry.
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