To chase girls, you need to be able to chat, and introverted boys may not be good at expressing themselves, let alone chatting, so chasing girls is often not that easy. So how can a boy with a very introverted personality find a girlfriend?
First of all, don’t forcefully change your personality.
You are obviously an introvert, but you insist on turning yourself into an extrovert; you are obviously not good at words, but you insist on forcing yourself to chat awkwardly in front of girls. This kind of forced change of your behavior is the stupidest thing. .
Character is difficult to change. If you force a change, you will only make yourself less able to speak and more and more embarrassed.
We have to be ourselves. If we are introverted and not very good at talking, then we must learn to listen. We listen carefully to the girls and interact with them based on what they talk about.
Some girls don’t like men chatting endlessly. They like men to listen to them and like to be recognized by men.
Being a good listener will make girls think you are a gentleman and very calm. When you agree with what a girl says, the girl will think you understand her well.
Then, if you want to find a girlfriend, you have to be aware of it.
You are an honest and introverted man yourself. When looking for a girlfriend, you should find a girl within your own ability, and don’t look for a girl who is too far beyond your ability.
For example, a male programmer I know is an honest and introverted person.
Others introduced him to girls, and the girls they introduced were more in line with his own conditions.
However, he is not interested in any of these girls with more suitable conditions. He always wants to find a girl who is particularly beautiful, capable, and has a good personality.
Originally, it was understandable for him to think so. Who doesn’t want to find a perfect lover. However, the problem is that the girl who is in extremely good condition and is perfect in every aspect simply doesn't like him.
That’s it, it’s hard to settle down. He’s already 37 this year, and he hasn’t found a suitable partner yet.
We have always said that when looking for a partner, you should look for someone whose conditions match your own. It is difficult for us to pursue the opposite sex that exceeds our own conditions.
Before looking for friends, we must understand the conditions within which we can get the opposite sex. Don't waste your time on people of the opposite sex who are out of range.
Finally, what you need to do is to show your strengths
Men really don’t talk too much . Men who talk too much will make girls feel glib and unreliable.
As a man, be honestIntroversion is not terrible. What is terrible is that you do not have your own characteristics and talents.
You must have bright spots and advantages.
For example, although you are not very good at talking, but you are well-known in the industry, girls will think you are excellent; or if you can help girls solve some practical things, girls will also think you are good. If you are very capable; or if you have a high salary, a house and a car, girls will also think that you are capable.
Therefore, men do not win respect by speaking, but by strength.
Girls naturally like strong men. Being introverted, honest, and not good at expressing will not prevent you from finding friends to get married, but being incapable and lacking in strength will prevent girls from liking you.
Therefore, introverted boys should learn to improve their abilities and show them in front of girls, so that it will be easy to find a girlfriend.
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