There are many older leftover men and leftover women around us. First of all, we should not blindly demonize older men and women. In my opinion, there are still many advantages to marrying an older leftover woman. Of course, there are also many disadvantages. Today, the editor will share with you the advantages and disadvantages of marrying an older leftover girl. After reading this, you can decide whether to pursue an older leftover girl.
1. Advantages of marrying an older leftover woman
1. Social stability
The work or life of older leftover women is already relatively stable. Most older leftover women have a daily life. I commute to and from work between 2:00 and 1st line, occasionally go out to go shopping with my best friends and have dinner appointments, most of the time I stay at home alone, and at most I occasionally go out for blind dates. For many boys, if an older left-over girl has such a stable social life, such a girl must have nothing to do and is a good partner to live at home.
2. The purpose of dating is to get married
If you choose to fall in love with a little girl, it seems It seems very sweet, but maybe you and her have been dating for a year and a half, and they break up when they say you want to break up. Anyway, she is still young and can still go through a few more relationships, but you are not young anymore, so you can't wait. Got up. But the older leftover women are different. They are basically strict first and then lenient. They will be very cautious in the early stage, but once they identify you, their requirements for you will become lower and lower as time goes by, because she usually doesn’t like you when she is dating you. The purpose is to get married, so you won’t waste too much time.
3. Having material advantages
In fact, it is very realistic for both boys and girls, especially the older they are, the more they care about material things. For an average young girl, let alone any material foundation, she might be able to support herself. If you are with her, the burden of supporting the family may fall entirely on you. After all, older leftover women have some material foundation. If you choose to marry an older leftover woman, to be honest, the burden of supporting the family will be much easier.
4. Be able to live independently
The older leftover girl has been alone for so many years, so she will not be particularly dependent on men. This is really true for many boys who are afraid of trouble. It's a very good benefit. And if you are in love with a little girl, you may not even be able to find a place to have a date with her, and it will really take a lot of trouble.
2. Disadvantages of marrying an older leftover girl
1. Missing the best fertility period
The older leftover women we talk about generally refer to girls who are still single over the age of 30. They have passed the age of 28 and missed the best childbearing period. If you marry an older leftover woman, if you want to have children, you may have many. Uncertainty factors need to be considered clearly.
2. Older leftover girls are a reality after all
Little girls may be emotional after all. As long as they really love you, they will not go too far.I care about real economic issues and am willing to fight with you. But the older leftover girl is different. If she goes out with her, she will think further. She will consider how much the bride price will be before marriage. She will add her name to the house that the man bought in full. .
I can only say that there are pros and cons to marrying an older leftover girl. If you are planning to marry an older leftover girl, you must consider the above points carefully.
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