Boys often say that a girl is too aloof and difficult to pursue. In fact, it is possible that she just looks aloof and makes people afraid to approach her. However, if you can chat with her for a few words, but after getting to know her, she will They may be very easy-going and easy to get along with, but they are not what you think they are. So how should you pursue a girl like this?
What are the characteristics of girls who look cool?
1. Learn to turn a blind eye to her appropriately
A girl with a cold and beautiful appearance must be surrounded by There will be a lot of boys around her, so at this time, she will enjoy this feeling very much. What boys need to do is to ignore her at this time, so girls will be curious, why are you not like other girls? Are people attracted to her as well? She will feel that you are different, so she will be interested in you and want to get to know you intimately.
The less you get close to her, the more curious she will be. Driven by curiosity, she will not be able to restrain herself from getting to know you.
Once she gets close to you, she must maintain a nonchalant attitude and not let the girl find out that you are interested in her, otherwise everything you have done will be in vain, because she may She just wants to test you. Once you fall quickly, she will find it boring. So, lead her step by step into the routine you designed, and naturally she will be yours.
2. Give her care that does not cross the line
For a girl who looks very cold, she does not want to receive too much care and attention from others. A man can give her appropriate care, but he must not cross the line too obviously, otherwise it will make her feel guilty. If a girl doesn't like you, she won't accept too much care from a boy for no reason. In her eyes, if you care about her too often, it will make her feel bored, so your kindness will not matter to her. It becomes an interruption.
Therefore, boys must learn to grasp the scale. If you care about her just right, she will remember it more in your heart and help her deal with some inconspicuous things. One day she will be moved by you.
3. Learn some romance
Girls are all romantic creatures, regardless of her appearance. Aloof, whatever type of girls they are, they all like romance very much. A person who is willing to create romance for her can of course move her heart, because she sees that the boy cares about her, wants to make her happy, is willing to spend time preparing things for her that she likes, and is willing to do it for her. Pay and she will understand.
Your intention is in your heart, and she is so important. Standard girls generally don’t like romances that are very grand, and they tend to be simple ones.Simple routines are what can impress them the most, not too many, just simple ones.
4. Be hot and cold towards her, don’t be too enthusiastic
When you face a girl who looks very cold, don’t show that you are too enthusiastic and can’t You always take the initiative to look for her. At the beginning, you can hang around her every day and care about her in various ways. When the opportunity comes, you should suddenly not take the initiative to look for her and let her find out what happened recently. If you don't pay so much attention to her for a while, she will often find that your attitude towards her has changed, and she will naturally come to you.
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