When a girlfriend is angry, according to the traditional kung fu point, she should just coax her. However, some girlfriends just don’t follow martial ethics. Hey, the more she coaxes her, the more energetic she becomes! You can’t be unreasonable!
p>Some girlfriends will cry, make trouble, or hang themselves whenever they get angry, thereby coercing their boyfriends into doing things that he doesn't want to do in order to coax them.
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The current trend (having to coax your girlfriend when she is angry) is nonsense! What’s wrong with not wanting to coax your girlfriend when she is angry? Next, I will share with you that I don’t want to coax her. Some ways to coax your girlfriend.
1. Don’t make her angry
When a girl friend is angry, she should be coaxed, and she should be kissed or hugged Hug, lift high. It's okay to have an occasional attack or two, but it's unbearable to have a tantrum every two days.
If you don’t want to coax your girlfriend, then you must eliminate the source of the problem - the conditions for coaxing girls. Generally speaking, your girlfriend needs someone to coax her when she is angry or sad.
Then don’t make your girlfriend angry or sad. For example, if you don’t do your job properly, it will easily make your girlfriend angry. Then start being a young and promising young man.
2. Giving gifts
This is like two countries going to war and ceding territory to pay compensation. If you make your girlfriend angry, you will naturally have to pay a corresponding "price". Sending gifts or other things can actually relieve your girlfriend's mood very well.
However, there are also things to be careful about when giving gifts. You cannot give your girlfriend gifts that you don’t like or that you don’t like. If your girlfriend is a foodie, give her delicious food. If your girlfriend likes to dress up, give her clothes. In short, you have to cater to your girlfriend’s hobbies.
Some boys will give expensive gifts to their girlfriends every time. After a few times when their girlfriends get angry, they can no longer bear it. Therefore, they must also measure their financial strength when giving gifts.
3. Emotional transfer
The most common way to transfer emotions is to tease girls, but when your girlfriend is angry If you smile playfully at her, there is a high chance that she will be kicked away.
Therefore, you need to use different methods of emotional transfer for girlfriends with different personalities.
Common ones are:
1) Telling jokes (humor)
2) Being angry with her (controlling anger with anger, intimidation)
< p> 3) Reasoning (transfer girls' emotional thinking to rational thinking, thereby cooling down their emotions)4) Hugs, kisses, and sex (use physical contact to divert attention)
< h2>4. Cold treatmentIt’s useless to say anything when your girlfriend is angry. You explain that she thinks you are making excuses; you apologize and she thinks your attitude is wrong; you kneel down and she says you are weak; anyway youWhatever you do is your fault...
At this time, just deal with it coldly, don't coax or care about your girlfriend, let her calm down by herself, and wait until she regains her senses to solve the problem. .
5. Break up
You can’t solve the problem by coaxing her, and you can’t solve the problem by not coaxing her. What are you doing with a girlfriend like this? Are you going to be a bitch? Break up with her, regain your masculinity, and be a real man! Love should be about equality and mutual understanding, rather than letting your girlfriend do whatever she wants.
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