There are more and more singles in today's society. They don't know how to communicate with girls. Even if they meet the girl they love, they will stay where they are, not knowing what to do. Some love novices wait for love to come to their door, but when love really arrives, they dare not take the initiative. In fact, falling in love requires skills. Today I will share with you some tips on pursuing girls, so that you will not Alone again.
1. Learn to speak sweet words
Girls simply cannot resist the temptation of sweet words in the emotional world. Because they all yearn for romantic love, no one is willing to listen to nice words, and the same is true for girls. Many girls have no resistance to sweet words, so boys must not be stingy with the words they use to praise girls.
This will prevent the two people from being embarrassed during the chat. However, there is a certain range for sweet talk from boys. Boys should not praise girls as hard as they come up. They must combine it with reality. It is said that the two of them have only known each other for a few days, and the boy makes all kinds of promises to the girl. This is definitely not acceptable and will only make the girl think that you are a hypocritical and unreliable man.
2. Master the frequency and scope of chatting
How to talk about feelings is also a content that two people need to learn during chatting. When boys with high emotional intelligence pursue girls, They will control the frequency and scope of chatting between the two, and will not let the relationship between the two develop naturally. After all, the purpose of chatting between boys and girls is to pursue each other. If the relationship is allowed to develop naturally, Maybe in the end you will only love but not get it.
In the process of chatting with a girl, don’t harass the other person with constant greetings. This will only disturb the other person’s normal life, and also disturb the other person’s life. Let her feel that you are a long-winded person, so boys must control the frequency, say what should be said, and don't say what should not be said. Master the atmosphere and rhythm of the two people's chat, so that the two of them can be comfortable and happy. Chat in the atmosphere. !
3. Put it into practical action
Sometimes if you say too much sweet words without taking any actual action, it will only make girls think you are hypocritical. After all, actions are louder than words. More practical. If you want a qualitative leap in the relationship between two people, a boy with high emotional intelligence will definitely use his actual actions to impress the girl, because this will be more convincing and make the girl feel that you are reliable and are pursuing what you want. During the process, the two may not spend much time together.
In a limited period of time, it is impossible for boys to take too many practical actions in front of girls. At this time, boys must create their own time and create opportunities for the two of them to date, so that they can have more opportunities. Get along, only when you are familiar with each other, will the girl slowly accept you, and the relationship between the two will develop further.!
Summary: When pursuing a girl, it will not be so difficult as long as you master the appropriate skills and methods. Emotional intelligence is a very important factor in the process of pursuing a girl, which will increase the success rate of boys' pursuit< /p>
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