Getting along between men and women should be a step-by-step process, and there is no need to rush.
If you meet a girl who is pure and self-respecting, and never crosses the threshold before entering the marriage hall, that is your blessing.
But this girl won’t let you touch her while enjoying all the benefits you gave her, which only proves that you are being used.
A truly clean and self-loving good girl will not only know how to protect herself, but also know how to take care of the emotions of others.
She knows that you are equals in this relationship, so she will not always try to take advantage of you.
If you take advantage but are unwilling to sacrifice yourself, it only proves that to her, you are just a spare tire from beginning to end.
She falls in love so that she can find a man to spend money for her and do everything for her, but she has never thought about marrying you in the future.
When you meet such a girl, don’t just suffer the consequences, because in the end it will be you who gets hurt.
In order not to be led by others in this relationship, everyone can fight back appropriately.
1. Stop spending money on her
Money is a touchstone for everyone , it can see the true face of many people.
If a girl keeps spending your money while pretending to be clean, then you should be careful. Maybe you are just a cash machine in others' eyes.
Because a truly clean and self-respecting girl not only knows how to protect her body, but also knows how to defend her dignity. A girl with dignity and character will not spend other people’s money casually, even if this person It's my boyfriend.
If you got along well before, but you cut off her money when you couldn’t get what you wanted, she would show special dissatisfaction and even become more and more aggressive with you. The more distant you are, the more it proves that your relationship has been nothing more than a profit transaction from beginning to end.
To be precise, it is not a transaction of interest, because she is the only one who benefits from the whole process.
2. No longer helping with everything
The role of a boyfriend is very broad. In addition to spending money for your girlfriend, you can also help your girlfriend solve many problems, such as taking good care of your girlfriend and standing up when your girlfriend is in trouble.
When a girl has a boyfriend, she doesn’t have to do many things herself because her boyfriend will do everything.
Since she is the only one who benefits from this relationship and you pay, why should you continue? An unequal relationship cannot last long.
Each of us needs to find a psychological balance point. You have always played the role of giving, while the other party enjoys everything you have given. As time goes by, you will naturally not be balanced.
This is a very normal behavior, so under this situation, everyone should make changes and no longer regard themselves as her housekeeper or even her family as before.
3. Get along with each other on a friendly and equal basis
In a relationship, boys tend to give more. Whether it's money or action, most girls will have certain advantages, but it's all based on certain relationships.
Since your relationship has not reached that stage yet, you should naturally get along with each other in a friendly and equal manner.
Absolute equality, absolute friendliness, just like friends.
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