When many boys are chasing girls, they should boldly say it if they like it. Then, regardless of the exposure of their need, they take the initiative to express their affection for the girl before they understand the girl's intentions. Then he was given a good guy card.
The original meaning of neediness refers to your desire for something you need. If this word appears among people chasing girls, the meaning is not as simple as the superficial meaning. It means that you have shown too much purpose, making the girl think that you are only good to her because you want to be with her or want to sleep with her. Therefore, people who over-expose their needs will eventually be rejected by girls.
Many people here may be curious and ask: If I like a girl, if I don’t tell her, how does she know that I like her? What if she is chased away by others? Then I would like to ask the brothers who have similar doubts a question: Why do you let a girl know that you like her? The answer must be to let her like "you".
But you like a girl because of her beauty or a certain shining point about her. But besides expressing your affection for the girl, what else can the girl feel? Use your like in exchange for the girl’s like. , using self-awareness to change girls? Obviously it doesn’t make sense.
If you just express yourself, have no further requirements, and don’t care about the final result of communicating with girls, then your purpose and needs It won't be exposed. Just like when we were young and had elementary school sports days, everyone just wanted to have fun and who cared who won first place.
In the process of getting along with girls, it is inevitable to show affection for girls and reveal their need. However, many boys are disliked and bored by girls because they use too much force. So when encountering this situation How to remedy it?
1. Don’t have a purpose every time you chat
When chatting with girls The purpose is to establish attraction and then invite. There is nothing wrong with this, but it must be based on the premise of mutual affection with girls. However, many boys still easily make mistakes when chatting with girls, such as:
You praise a girl, saying she is beautiful or has a good personality. Complimenting a girl can bring you closer to her without revealing your needs and purposes. But if you say that I like your personality , can you be my girlfriend? If you suddenly express your strong affection to a girl and ask her to answer your questions, you are exposing your needs and purpose.
2. Don’t be easily influenced by girls’ emotions
When chatting and interacting with girls, you will inevitably make mistakes oneIf you make some small mistakes, the girl will be unhappy and unwilling to talk to you. At this time, many brothers will be easily influenced by the girl's emotions and are afraid of losing the girl. Many brothers will immediately apologize and say sorry, and start to care and kneel in all kinds of ways. , this kind of behavior has very low value, damages the attraction you established in the morning chat, and exposes your needs and purpose.
We need to understand that even if we accidentally say something wrong or do something bad that makes the other party unhappy, don’t panic. Give both parties some time to calm down first, and then use other methods to break the girl’s heart. Pull back. The most important thing is not to rush!
When a girl is angry, as long as you can make her laugh, everything will pass!
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