The second season of Tencent's "Heart Signal" is currently on the air. I am a fan of the sweet girl Kaiwen in it. She has two small dimples when she smiles, and it is easy to win the favor of others. No, she won the favor of the two men as soon as she came. They tried their best to win her over, but I don’t know who won her in the end. If you encounter two people pursuing a girl at the same time in reality, how to win?
1. Pursue according to the girl’s personality
When chasing girls with different personalities, you need to use different pursuit methods. When two boys are chasing a girl at the same time, you must first understand the girl’s personality. Determine her likes and dislikes based on her personality, and then work out a specific approach. Since you want to pursue her, the prerequisite is to have a chance to get along with her, that is, face to face. Moreover, opportunities for meeting need to be created. Only by creating opportunities for meeting can the chance of victory be greater. Take Zhao Qijun's pursuit of Kaiwen as an example: Kaiwen was originally more inclined to choose Wu Xiangwei at first, but Zhao Qijun caught Kaiwen's characteristic of being a little girl and prepared date clothes for her based on this characteristic. As expected, Kaiwen chose She bought the clothes he prepared and successfully started a date. During the date, she also knew how to please her, which deepened Kaiwen's affection for her.
2. Be magnanimous
Many boys find that there are two When a boy pursues a girl at the same time, it is easy for him to lose his sense of proportion and worry about everything, which can easily leave a bad impression on the girl. First of all, when chasing a girl, you need to give her an impression, that is, she must be manly, polite, and not stingy. Although Zhao Qijun is easy to give people a strong feeling, he is also good at resolving some embarrassing situations. Although Wu Xiangwei also takes good care of Kaiwen, it is easy for Kaiwen to fall into a dilemma. Choose between the two. One, it is naturally clear.
3. Avoid stalking
When you find a girl is interested in you When you are distant and intend to get close to others, be careful not to stalk them. Your fundamental task in pursuing a girl is to make her fall in love with you, not to force her to like you. This will only have the opposite effect. After Kaiwen clearly fell in love with Zhao Qijun, Wu Xiangwei continued to show his goodwill and confront Zhao Qijun. Although this was his right, it could also easily put Kaiwen in a difficult position. He was often caught between the two, which could easily cause trouble. .
Four. Maintain a good image
When girls choose someone, they are His personal charmAttract, otherwise why would people be with you? If you want to be with someone you like, it is also a prerequisite to establish a sense of responsibility. With a sense of responsibility, only when you get along with her will you make the other person feel safe and build a relationship. Therefore, you must maintain a serious, positive, professional, and diligent image. Girls are looking for a mountain, a mountain they can rely on. In entertainment, daily contact or group life, treat everyone with your enthusiasm and vitality, be emotional and full of masculine characteristics. Every frontal or sideways expression of yours will leave an impression on her in your mind.
In addition, don’t find it annoying for two people to chase a girl at the same time. This also shows from the side that the girl is excellent and you have a good taste. What you need to do is to make girls recognize you through your own efforts and stand out from the suitors. Ps: Don’t hide the image of another suitor in front of girls. If you do so, it will not only slap you in the face, but also reduce the girl’s impression of you.
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