After marriage, both husband and wife hope that their lives will be happy and lasting. But according to statistics, the divorce rate in China is getting higher and higher now. Divorce is based on a broken relationship, which means the marriage is bad. What are the reasons for unsatisfactory marriages? How to solve marriage problems? let's see!
1. What are the reasons for unsatisfactory marriages?
1. It is possible that both of them have strong personalities. For example, when something happens, it is easy to quarrel without considering other people's opinions. Frequent quarrels will definitely affect your relationship.
2. A marriage without topics is in vain. Some people don't even bother to quarrel, so life in a marriage without a common language is not smooth.
3. Marriage will not go smoothly without companionship and communication, because now for the sake of livelihood, many people will choose to separate, and one of them will go to work in another city, so there will be less companionship and the relationship will fade.
4. The marriage of couples who are not good at expressing love will not be successful. If the other person is a romantic person and you are not good at expressing yourself, then the other person will feel that life has no sense of ritual and life is unhappy.
2. How to solve marriage problems
1. When two people quarrel, you can think from the other person's perspective and see if what the other person says makes sense. Don't get carried away by quarrels, because quarrels can easily lead to excitement. Be sure to calm down and discuss the issue to avoid an unsuccessful marriage.
2. It is normal for couples to quarrel. There is no couple who does not quarrel. However, when they quarreled, they only focused on this matter. They can't argue about the past. Otherwise, there will be more and more noise, which will affect the relationship between both parties.
3. Don’t compare when quarreling. For example, when your wife quarrels, she will talk about who makes more money, who is mature, etc. If this happens, the husband will become more and more irritable and his self-esteem will be hit.
4. Marriage is made up of two people and requires good joint maintenance. Communicate promptly when encountering problems. Don't fight over small things. Also, be there for each other and understand each other’s needs.
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