Dating is the best time to upgrade the relationship, but for some boys who are inexperienced in love, they don’t know how to upgrade the relationship. They have dated girls many times and have not even held hands. Today I will teach you how to upgrade the relationship. How to hold a girl's hand on a first date.
How to hold a girl’s hand when you first date her?
1. Help carry things
When you come out of the supermarket (no matter where you come from, the things must be full) Both hands), holding things with both hands. After a while, he said he was very tired and asked her to help. She definitely said yes.
Then help me lift something lighter.
Okay.
Then you put the things into one hand and give her the free hand
...Isn’t it lighter?
This is lighter. Yeah...
……
Many girls will appreciate a little romance, which can be annoying and funny at most.
2. The method of holding hands
When it comes to holding hands naturally, many people will tell the example of holding hands on the road. Although the technique is old-fashioned, the effect is really good.
In fact, there are many such examples in life.
For example: When you are catching the bus, the bus you are waiting for is about to leave, so you grab her hand and run onto the bus.
You can also do it in a subway station. When you encounter a lot of people, because of the screen door, you can remind her to be careful when entering the subway, and at the same time grab her hand, be sure to hold her hand tightly to show that you are Very worried about her safety. In panic, she might not be able to break free. After that, you can let go according to the situation, or if there are too many people, you can continue to hold the hand. Sometimes, to protect her, you have to be a little overbearing.
There are many similar scenes, such as mountain climbing, skating and other slightly dangerous actions.
3. Hold hands as elegantly as a gentleman
Don’t be secretive when holding hands, it must be aboveboard, just like striking up a conversation: Smiling, with eyes full of love and expectation, he put his hand in front of her, not as a request, but as a gentleman's invitation, asking her to put his hand on it.
Girls feel: You are a boy and you have the obligation to take the initiative. I hope that such initiative is sincere and sincere.
4. Advance suggestion method
As a boy, it is normal to worry about being rejected if you hold hands
If you and the girl you like are no longer strangers, you can advance Inoculate her by saying, for example, when you chat with her the day before the date: I want to hold your hand tomorrow. This gives her mental preparation. Until the date, the other party may be fantasizing about holding hands in her mind, and she will also think about it.Under what circumstances do you hold hands, and what should you do if you are held?
The premise is that inviting her is no longer a problem. Many girls agree to go on a date with you, especially if you can still have a pleasant date after saying this, then hold hands boldly. You can't wait for her to say: "You can hold my hand..."
5. Xueba asks questions and holds hands
It is said that others do not understand the world of Xueba, yes, Xueba has A unique way of holding hands.
When a top student wants to hold hands with the girl he likes, he will do it by discussing problems. One top student shared a personal case: The top student was good at science, but every time he used it, he forgot the "Left-hand rule of Lorentz force (use fingers and palms to extend flat or upright to determine the direction of charge movement)", so every time He went to ask his female classmate every time. Every time, this female classmate would scold him for being stupid, and then hold his hand and teach him.
When the book is used, it will be less regretful. Sure enough, the book has its own golden rules. It even covers things like holding hands. You can also try it.