After chatting with a girl to a certain stage, if you want to take the relationship further, you can put the invitation on the agenda. So how do you ask a girl out to meet? Let me share with you some classic techniques for asking a girl out.
We divide the invitation skills into three steps: 1. Fuzzy invitation. 2. Scenario upgrade. 3. Make an appointment.
Now I will describe the specific operations of these three stages respectively.
1. Vague invitation
The first step in the invitation stage, "vague invitation", is to make the invitation Behavior becomes natural and not too abrupt.
The trick to making a vague invitation is not to specify the time or place, but first use a topic that the girl is more interested in to try to invite.
The specific words are as follows:
Male: Did you say last time that there was a particularly delicious hotpot restaurant near your home?
Female: Yes, that’s where I go to eat hot pot.
Male: I just happen to want to eat hot pot recently. If you have the chance, let’s go together.
Female: Okay, I’ve been wanting to eat it for a long time.
As you can see, this vague invitation only mentioned the content of the date, but did not confirm the date of the date. If the girl accepts our vague invitation, it means that she is willing to date us.
So our next step is to increase the attractiveness to girls on dates to increase the chances of success in the final invitation.
2. Scenario implantation
Situation implantation is the rhetoric immediately after the vague invitation. Use Scenario implantation to upgrade their relationship. It's like simulating what will happen during the date before the date. If the girl passes this stage, she can hold hands and kiss during the date.
The specific words are as follows:
Male: Dear, I am actually very sentimental.
Female: What should I say?
Male: If I feel sad while watching a movie, remember to give me your shoulder to lean on.
Female: What a big deal. I’ll give you my sister’s shoulder to lean on.
Male: Well, if it’s too tear-jerking, remember to give me a moma to make me happy~
Female: Then let’s watch a comedy movie.
Male: Then I will be so happy that I can’t help but kiss you.
Female: It seems I can’t escape no matter what, haha.
It’s just a simple physical upgrade before a date. Many brothers react to saying this to their girls, and the girls react indifferently, or even reject them outright.
Brothers who have been rejected at this stage, have you ever thought about whether you didn’t have a good chat during the ambiguous period? Is it because youAre you too anxious so you expose your needs?
Remember, the premise of each stage is that you must pass the previous stage. Eagerness for quick success will definitely be counterproductive.
3. Confirm the invitation
After passing the last two tests, we will confirm the appointment. Time and place.
Don’t be in a hurry when confirming a date, and don’t reveal your needs too much. Think about how you would ask your brother out for dinner and drinks, and think about how it felt. It's often better to be carefree.
The specific words are as follows:
Male: Tomorrow is Sunday, should we make a hot pot agreement?
Female: Sure, I just happen to be so hungry.
Male: Okay, leave your phone number. You can take me there when the time comes. I’m afraid I can’t find you.
Female: Yes, 158xxxxxxxx
Male: OK
Girls who have passed the previous two stages will generally agree to your date, unless they are really busy. Or special circumstances arise.
There is one point that needs to be emphasized here. That is, many brothers will become impetuous after being rejected by girls, and then they will continue to expose their needs.
For example:
Man: Tomorrow is Sunday, do we want to make a hot pot agreement? .
Female: Sorry, I have something to do on Sunday. Until next time.
Male: We had made an appointment before, so why did something suddenly happen? What happened?
Female: It’s a private matter, it’s hard to avoid it.
Male: Okay, then when can we make another date?
Female: Let’s talk about it then.
Male: At least give me a definite time.
Female: I don’t know when I will have time.
Male: Okay. . .
There is no doubt that this is because you feel frustrated because the date has failed, thus exposing your neediness. In fact, more than half of the girls who have passed the situation implantation already belong to you. If you are rejected, it does not mean that the girl is not interested in you. It is very likely that the girl is really inconvenient. You can just make an appointment next time if you have an opportunity.
The correct words should be like this:
Male: Tomorrow is Sunday, should we make a hot pot agreement?
Female: Sorry, I have something to do on Sunday. Until next time.
Male: You are so miserable. It seems that you are going to miss this delicious little hot pot.
Female: No, I really want to eat it too. But something happened at home.
Male: It doesn’t matter. Just do your homework at home first. The hot pot restaurant will not close.
Female: Okay, I will make an appointment with you when I have time.
Male: Yes, as long as it’s hot pot, I’m free at any time.
Female: Haha, you are a foodie.
This is the safest operation.
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