If you like a girl and want to catch her quickly, you need to learn to approach her from her perspective and give her the greatest degree of comfort. At this time, some people may ask, isn't this just dog-licking?
Of course not, dog-licking means catering to the other party without dignity or bottom line. If you can stick to your own principles while catering to the other person, then you are considered a man with high emotional intelligence.
After all, no boy can easily win the favor of a girl, and those boys who seem to you to be chasing girls easily may have done something to impress you where you can’t see them. Behind the behaviors of girls is the charm of high emotional intelligence.
Next, I will teach you three steps to become a boy with high emotional intelligence.
The first step is to act with grace
"Boys don’t have to be handsome, but they must be graceful." . A boy with no grace will make a girl instantly lose her favor to you, while a boy with grace can make a girl fall in love with you instantly.
For example: let girls go in first when opening the door, help girls open the door when getting on and off the bus, let girls walk on the inside of the road when going out... At any time, the word "demeanor" is fully reflected.
How to do things with grace?
① Have ideals, attitude and responsibility for yourself
② Be caring and tolerant towards your lover. Responsible
③Be respectful, polite and self-restrained to others
④Be calm, loyal and generous to friends
The second step is to speak appropriately
A boy who speaks appropriately knows clearly what he should and should not say when dealing with girls. At what point? I won’t talk about outrageous topics.
For example: you won’t make fun of girls’ appearance and weight, you won’t talk about topics that girls don’t want to talk about, and you won’t randomly comment on what girls do or say...
Boys with high emotional intelligence take the phrase "speaking is also a skill" to the extreme.
How to speak in a measured manner? Still 4 points:
① Learn not to ask questions. When a girl doesn't want to talk, don't ask further.
②Don’t gossip about people in small talk. Don't let girls think that we are a gossip.
③Don’t say anything inappropriate. Don't talk about ambiguous topics when you first get acquainted.
④Praise girls more. Praising someone costs nothing, but it will make girls smile.
The third step is to control the details
Everyone knows,Girls care more about details, so when a boy cares more about details than girls, girls will have a very good impression of you.
Pay attention to the boys with high emotional intelligence around you. They must be detail-oriented. For example, remember a girl’s preferences, give her surprises from time to time, etc.
For example, if a girl likes snacks, you can bring some snacks with you when you meet. Details determine success or failure, how to become detailed? 2 points.
①Make observation a way of life. In the final analysis, the control of details comes from observation. Be good at observation and develop habits.
②Expand the scope of observation. At the beginning, the scope of observation may be limited. For example, I only know the preferences of girls, but not the taboos of girls. Try to slowly expand the scope, which will help you understand girls more deeply.
Boys with high emotional intelligence will start from the perspective of girls and give girls a feeling of spring breeze. Just think, which girl wouldn’t want to get along with such a person?
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