How can I chat with a girl on WeChat? This is the most common question asked by many boys. Many boys have a misunderstanding when dating girls on WeChat, that is, they want to date the girl they like with just one sentence.
For example: On WeChat, when I first added a girl, I looked at the photos in the girl’s circle of friends, whether she was fair-skinned, beautiful, or had long legs, and then just said: “If you have time, please "You eat", and then there is often nothing more to say.
Can such a WeChat invitation be successful? Unless the girl is very hungry and has no money to eat.
Without further ado, let’s get straight to the point. Let’s share with you some WeChat invitation skills.
Before chatting, you must first make a good first impression on girls. Then your WeChat Moments and avatar must be modified, because this is the basis for girls to be interested in you.
You know, usually after adding a girl, they will first judge through your circle of friends whether she is the same person as you. If your circle of friends is too low, they will all be forwarded. Chicken Soup for the Soul, unless you are Daniel Wu or Eddie Peng, she will not be very interested in you.
Especially for girls who have transferred to WeChat from Tantan, Momo, and Jiayuan, a good circle of friends can at least increase your subsequent invitation success rate by half.
After you have taken the first step, we can enter the invitation process.
1. Test attitude and interest
Every time you chat with a girl, because you are not sure whether she can agree to your invitation, then you can boldly test it out, but you must master this Spend.
Every girl is different, and the situation must be different. For example, some girls are particularly interested in you, so there is no need to talk more. You can invite directly.
Some girls are not that obviously interested in you, so we have to talk to her slowly and wait for her interest to appear.
For example:
Girls: Go home
Boys: I thought you were still working overtime
Girls: No< /p>
Boys: Let’s go and play together when we’re done.
Girls: Where to go?
Boys: Let’s go eat something delicious.
Girls: Haha
Boys: Hey, I’ve gained a lot of weight recently
Girls: I’ve gained weight too
Boys: Let’s go eat something that won’t make us fat. Dongdong (smiling expression)
We can easily see that this girl can be dated, but now is not the time. Then we can continue chatting, and when we reach a certain level of emotion, we can just extend the invitation.
2. Use stories to attract her
This is the most interesting part of chatting with girls, which is telling yourself in front of girls Life stories, let the story give girls a strong curiosity. Let me give you a simple example:
Boy: Yes, I had a puppy before, it was super cute, but...
Girl: Why?
Boy: I drove it to the scenic spot that day, and it accidentally fell from a height and died (sad)
Girl: Ah, so tragic
Boy: Yes, I will go there every year at that time.
Girl: Where is it?
Boy: XX Mountain
Next time Let’s go and see it together
Girl: Yes, yes
Looking at the above conversation, the woman’s interest is still acceptable, so just invite her directly. The invitation should be concise and to the point.
Everyone has a story, you just need to use your own logic to express it, and then convert it into an invitation naturally.
This is to use storytelling to express to girls that you are a boy with a story, so that girls will be attracted to you unconsciously, look forward to participating in your story, and agree to date you.
3. Create invitations that are congenial to girls
When a girl tells her that she likes something more or When expressing a certain inner emotional state, you say that you also have the same preferences, which will definitely quickly bring the relationship between you closer.
For example:
Boy: He is indeed a cute little girl who loves reading
Girl: Well, I really like reading
Boy: I like natural science books, and I go to Rushi Bookstore every Saturday afternoon to sit there for a while.
Girl: Aha, you go there too! But I always go there late and come back early.
Boy: What a coincidence. We have similar interests. Next time we make an appointment, we can have coffee there.
Girl: Yes, sure. The environment is really nice.
< p> This invitation method allows you to find your common interests when chatting with girls.For example, if you both like photography, Jay Chou’s music, and go to the library to read on weekends, then you can hit it off and invite someone directly, and the girl will basically agree directly.
When you reach a particularly happy moment when chatting with a woman, affected by the happy mood, the success rate of inviting you will be much higher at this time.
Especially if your humor or interesting stories make girls laughtime, can be regarded as the best time to make an invitation.
Usually we like to make invitations to women at the end of the chat. Often the topic has ended by this time, and the emotions and thinking tend to be calm and rational. This is not the best time to make an invitation, nor is it the best time to make an invitation. A good habit.
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