If you want to successfully pursue a girl, it is crucial to know how to seize the opportunity to upgrade the relationship. Only by mobilizing the girl's emotions at the right time can your communication be more pleasant and the other party more likely to accept you. So how to seize these opportunities?
1. Start by changing the title
Nowadays, when many brothers talk to girls and say hello, the first word they use is "beauty".
In fact, for girls, they don’t like this kind of title.
If you have something serious to say, it doesn’t matter whether you yell or not. But if you want to pursue someone, it's better to use another word. For example, "girl" is fine.
If you call a girl "beautiful" when you come up and ask for her contact information, it will give the girl a malicious feeling.
Forget about contact information, I don’t even want to chat with you for a few more words.
You can call a girl “girl” when you are not familiar with her at first. After interacting a few times, you can change the title, such as "meisha", "kid", etc.
After you get more familiar with it, you can choose to give girls nicknames.
Such changes from time to time will make girls feel very fresh. But don’t use names that are too unpleasant. Otherwise, when a girl gets angry, she will block her.
2. Change your daily chatting style
Flirting is actually an important way to enhance feelings with girls. Don’t you Do you feel that when you see those boys chatting with girls, and the girls start acting coquettishly while talking, do you feel particularly envious?
In fact, this is not only a test of chatting skills, but more importantly, the use and mastery of situations.
If you want to flirt with a girl, you must first increase the heat. When the heat is up, you can flirt. If the heat is not there, you are playing hooligan.
First we need to change the way we chat. Our daily chats are quite serious.
For example, if you are late for a date, when you explain to a girl, you will usually say: "Sorry, there is a traffic jam on the road. Actually, I came out a long time ago."
At this time, girls cannot If you continue to chat happily, you can modify your words appropriately.
For example: "In order to let you relieve a little nervousness, I arrived a little late on purpose. How about it, you are not nervous now."
Although the girl is still angry, but like this The words can ease the girl's mood, and she may reply: "You are the only one who is nervous, it must be you who are nervous."
After resolving the embarrassment, just make a formal apology. At this time, you will no longer be in a cold mood..
After the atmosphere has eased, you should continue to interact happily with the girls. When you are almost finished chatting and want to switch to the next venue, you can have a small interaction with the girls.
For example, you said: "Let's compare who looks better, and the good-looking person will decide where to go...".
When a girl says she is good-looking, you can look at her affectionately. Of course, it is not a hooligan look, but there is tenderness and love in her eyes. Girls will blush at this time.
If she says you are good-looking, then you can hold her hand domineeringly and say, "Let's go! Let's go..."
This will not only allow you to continue smoothly, but also If you can control the next activity, why not do it.
Of course, you can jokingly hold her hand at the beginning, but don’t hold the girl’s hand all the time.
3. Appropriate physical contact
In the process of upgrading the relationship with girls, physical contact and words Flirting is equally important and the two complement each other.
But before you touch a girl, you must first confirm whether the girl likes you. After all, if you use bad words, you will arouse the disgust of girls.
In normal times, we can choose more natural contact, such as touching a girl's hand when passing something to a girl during a conversation, etc.
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