Chasing a girl, spending all your efforts to please her, only to find that you don’t get much favor from her? It feels like your body is being hollowed out. Do you want to know how to chase a girl you like? Here are three correct ways to chase a girl. You can make her miss you without you actively pursuing her.
1. "Sunshine is interesting and he is attracted to her"
People often say , falling in love is about fate: before dating, you look at the eyes, after living together, you look at the popularity, when you get married, you look at the marriage, but when you break up, you look at the green prairie above your head...
In fact, this so-called The "fate" refers to the girl's "impression" of you.
When you first meet a boy, what is the most important thing to a girl? It’s not whether you are handsome or not. Most boys are not handsome enough for girls to fall in love with them at first sight. It’s not you either. Do you have a lot of money? Those girls who observe boys' net worth all day long...
When a girl meets a boy's eyes for the first time in a huge sea of ??people, what the girl cares about is whether the boy is a little bit... thing. Things can be in thoughts or behaviors, but they cannot be on the face, let alone clothes.
From this point of view, as long as we wash our hair and clean our clothes when we meet for the first time, we can already leave a good impression on the girl.
As for if you want this impression to be good enough, you can definitely put some effort into chatting, and use the "conveying interest, but weakening the sense of need" chatting method that Shugen usually teaches you, and use your sincerity Get to know her, attract her with your humor, and warm her with your kindness. The specific method is added and is available for free.
In short, in the end, you will make the girl feel your sunshine and fun, and you really care about her. You will pass this first level.
2. "I'm good, but I'm not as good as you think"
When you are right After you have a certain understanding of each other, you can continue to show your other advantages to girls.
For example, help a girl open the back door and then sit alone in the passenger seat. When eating, help pull up the seat and sit on the same side as her. After helping her pour hot water, try helping her first. Temperature;
Another example is, when crossing the road, you ask a girl to walk on the inside of the road. I could have held her hand, but instead I pulled her arm. I sent the girl home and treated her as an invitation. When you go upstairs to drink a glass of water, you politely refuse. I understand.
Here’s the point. Just when this girl thinks everything about you is fine, you need to make her feel that you are fine, but you are not as good as she thinks.
Do thisWhat is the purpose of this step? Of course it is to make her fall in love with you.
There is a "mistake effect" in psychology, which means that a partner that is too perfect will make girls feel very insecure and unreal.
To compare, imagine if there was a girl with a unique temperament and a good personality who came to chat with us when she had nothing to do. Are you ready to buy her grandpa’s tea?
< p> When you are almost done chasing a girl, you should leave room for her to chase you.3. "Not only be an older brother, but also be an older brother with a story"
Some friends think I am not good at getting along with girls, and ruining the atmosphere is a trivial matter. If I accidentally do something wrong or say the wrong thing, it will affect the relationship between the two people and it will be a big deal.
Here I will teach you a stupid method. You should treat a girl as your biological sister, cousin, or sister in short. You should first take care of her and care for her like a brother, and naturally you will not go wrong. .
Of course, don’t pretend to be real. We are just trying to get along with her naturally and temporarily “like” her brother. Don’t really let the girl treat you as her brother.
When you are already very familiar with each other and it won’t be awkward even if there is no topic, then you don’t have to go out of your way to make her happy as before. You can talk about the topic in depth before leaving. Be careful.
For example, talking about your ex can also help you get to know each other better. When recalling the history of relationships, remember this formula:
The process of falling in love is simply said, but the growth of the mind is complex;
The experience of licking a dog is full of emotion and emotion, and is described in one stroke with deep feelings;< /p>
Key point: Although she was the one who was wrong, I was the one who chose to forgive her.
In short, my brother was not at fault, it was all his predecessor who caused the trouble.
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