Girls are naturally sweet-talking. If you are chasing a girl, you will definitely get compliments. However, many boys praise in the wrong way. As a result, their compliments not only have no positive effect in front of girls, but are even regarded as kneeling and licking. So how do you praise a girl correctly? Below, I will share with you 3 tips on complimenting a girl.
1. When praising girls, you need to be prepared
Everyone has the love for beauty. , so when it comes to complimenting girls, many boys will start with the girl’s appearance. In fact, there is nothing wrong with this, but it does not mean that when you see a girl, you can just say, "Oh, beauty, you are so beautiful!"
Don't use words like beauty, beautiful, and sexy. Just open your mouth, it’s of no use!
If you don’t believe it, just run down the street and say, “Beauty,” and if nothing else, most girls will turn around!
Also, she’s really good-looking. Girls are surrounded by such compliments every day!
The best compliment is to explain one thing yourself first, lay the groundwork, and then ask the girl to say another thing. Wait until she finishes talking about it. You can praise her for anything!
For example, if you just want to compliment her on how beautiful she is, you can simply complain about the facial mask you are using recently, and then ask her what facial mask she is using recently, and wait for her to finish. You can go on to say, I must give it a try, no wonder your skin is so good!
2. Praise girls for paying attention to details< /h2>
Just imagine, if someone comes up and calls you handsome, you will probably feel panicked and your hands will be tight, thinking that it is either an agency selling sales, or they are looking for help from you!
Most likely they are not sincere. Compliment you!
On the contrary, if someone comes up and first compliments your outfit and color matching, and then says that a handsome person like you looks good in anything he wears!
You I thought, oh, yes, this person is quite classy!
Yes, it is also a compliment, only the second one seems very careless! Because the second one is supported by a specific description, It seems logically natural.
When you praise a girl, you must not praise her vaguely, but be specific to the details, just like your game equipment will be accurate to two decimal places. Only in this way will she feel that you are just describing objective facts!
p>The more specific the details, the more sincere it is to give people a sense of sincerity. No one will resist others sincerely praising themselves for looking good or dressing well.
For a girl, the manicure she just did, the new pants she bought, or even the lipstick color and eye shadow she just changed are all worthy of praise!
If you notice these things that others don’t notice, it will make the girl feel that you value her and care about her very much.she.
For example, if you want to compliment a girl on her beautiful T-shirt, first ask where you bought it. If it happens to be a brand you are familiar with, you can talk more about related topics, and finally talk about yours. The clothes are nice, tasteful, etc.
So we need details to prove the fact of praise and recognition.
Compare the two sentences "Little brother, you are so handsome" and "Little brother, you look so handsome in a white shirt". Do you feel the difference?
< p style="text-align: center;">3. Praise a girl for her inner qualities rather than her outer appearance
Many people always like to praise a girl first when they first meet her. The other person is good-looking! It’s not that this is bad, it’s just that, she might receive a dozen compliments like yours in an hour!
If you don’t want to be a multiplayer with many licking dogs If you want to exercise, then go for some snacks! You can choose to pay attention to her inner self, which in itself is a sign of attentiveness; for example, a girl likes reading novels, watching movies, listening to classical music, or she likes to laugh, travel, and treat things. Be patient, these are all qualities worthy of praise! If you start from these points to praise her, you will be more thoughtful than her sister who comes right out of her mouth!
According to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs Theory in psychology, Divide human needs into five categories: physiological needs, safety needs, social needs, respect and self-actualization.
Your compliments to her satisfy her highest level of respect and self-actualization needs.
For example, you can praise me for singing beautifully, hahahaha.
Instead of seeing a girl, you can only praise her sister for her good looks and her great figure.
If you are not handsome, this will only make her think you are greasy and vulgar.
At the same time, your praise is a reflection of your high value and high emotional intelligence.
Only a person with a confident and sunny heart will like to praise others, and only a person who truly loves you will encourage you.
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