Some men feel that they are unconditionally and bottom-line good to a woman, and the woman will be moved to tears and become completely devoted to him. But in reality? Women will regard a man being kind to her as a man's despicable behavior, and feel that a man who has no bottom line is not a good person worthy of trust. Not only will women not be moved, but they will also look down on such men who have a base mentality. Let’s analyze for everyone what is the psychology of men’s sins? I hope men can check themselves and see if they have made the mistake of being mean.
1. Give up your career for a woman
How many long-distance lovers braved the pain of missing each other and persisted for a long time before finally achieving success. Some men, on the other hand, give up their originally superior and promising jobs just because of love, euphemistically calling it for love. But when I arrived in a strange place, I found that my work was very difficult, and I no longer had the high spirits I had at the beginning. What's more important is that the originally happy love has been ruined because of his work. When a man gives up his promising job and career for a woman, he is actually committing a crime. Especially when a woman does not deliberately ask you to do this, but you take the initiative to do it, in this case, the woman will not only not be moved by it, but will be disappointed in you because your work is hopeless.
2. Extreme decadence after a breakup
Some men act extremely decadent after breaking up with a woman. , hoping that the woman will feel sympathy after seeing such a miserable side of herself, and then agree to get back together with him. In fact, even if a woman intends to get back together, when she sees the man's decadent look, she thinks to herself that there is really no need to get back together. If a man becomes extremely decadent after a breakup, he is committing a crime. After falling out of love, he can find ways to recover. If he really cannot recover, he can start another relationship. You acting decadently are just torture for yourself and have no effect on women at all.
3. Dress up in front of women
Some men hope to attract women’s attention and get more attention from women. If you love someone too much, you want to show your excellent side in front of a woman, but in fact he is not that kind of person at all. What should you do? Only by pretending. And pretending to be too powerful is not true. When the flaw is exposed one day, their cowardly and incompetent nature will be revealed. This kind of behavior of men is "cheap" in the eyes of women. If you show your true self from the beginning, women will still be attracted to you, and there won’t be a day when your words and deeds are inconsistent in the future.
4. Hypocrisy and face-saving
Some men are really hypocritical and face-saving, and when they meet After meeting the woman they love, they will show this kind of hypocrisy and love for face in front of the woman.To the extreme. For example, wearing fake brand-name clothes worth dozens of yuan bought online, wearing fake brand-name watches worth dozens of yuan bought at a street stall, and then telling women, "These are all real." A woman may not see your hypocrisy at first, but after getting along for a long time and she sees it, what will she think of you?
Finally, when a man pursues a woman, he must pursue her with dignity and dignity. If you do something that belittles yourself in order to express your sincerity, not only will you not be able to pursue the woman you love, but it will also make that woman look down on you and think that you have a man's inferiority mentality, so she will look down on you instead.
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