Nowadays, age is no longer a stumbling block in relationships. Many girls are even more attracted to mature men who are older than themselves. So why do girls like mature men?
1. Why do girls like mature men?
Because their experience, knowledge, and thinking cannot be compared with truly mature boys.
Take the relationship between Elva Hsiao and Huang Hao as an example. She has to teach her many things. I think boys are also quite scared. Do you think girls are not tired?
As outsiders, what we see is what others are willing to show. What we cannot see is less melancholy and we cannot digest it ourselves.
Rather than make both parties tired, most girls would rather choose a boy who can lead her, tolerate her, or at least keep pace with her.
Therefore, many girls originally have a good impression of boys, but when they hear that they are younger than them, they hesitate.
Does it mean that you are mature when you are older? Not necessarily. What girls prefer is maturity, which is actually mature and steady thinking, which can give them a sense of security. Since maturity is not determined by age, how to judge it?
2. Performance of mature men
1 .Emotional stability
Girls are born with a strong mentality, and they hope that their boyfriend can be the one who carries the overall situation.
When you are at a loss, as long as he is there, you can feel at ease. Instead of only asking what to do at critical moments, and losing your temper when you are anxious.
But in fact, losing your temper cannot solve the problem, so you might as well change your thinking and think of solutions first when encountering problems.
2. Know how to be tolerant
Girls, in love, tend to show weakness, so they often act coquettishly and act cute, hoping that boys can be more tolerant and understanding of themselves, even if Sometimes I have a little bit of control, but I can also cooperate with it.
But naive boys will not understand this. They will only think that everyone is in their twenties, why should I let you?
Of course, I didn’t say it. You can't be yourself when you're in love, but now you're no longer alone. Why can't you look at things from the perspective and feelings of both parties?
3. Be considerate
Girls are easily attracted by the charm of mature boys. An important reason is that they are always so thoughtful.
They look so calm, but they can do everything perfectly and get along so harmoniously with everyone.
"Why? Why is he so perfect?" thought the boys and girls who couldn't help but admire him.
In fact, there is no such thing as perfection. It’s just that people know what they want, concentrate on doing it, and don’t waste time on unimportant people and things.
Just like you, you want a partner, but you still can’t let go of the game, but in the end, you haven’t landed well anywhere.
If you can use your time playing games to get to know what the girl you like likes to eat, what her hobbies are, what she expects from her boyfriend, and her plans for the future... ...
Then take her to her favorite restaurant, accompany her to do the things she likes, work hard to get closer to the image of a boyfriend she wants, and plan the future together. Then you can also establish a relationship in her heart. Thoughtful image.
There is no need for everyone to say hello to you, as long as you are considerate in her heart, it is enough.
4. Provide guidance
When some girls are single, Wen can handle customers and handle official affairs, and Wu can Able to lift a 20-pound shopping bag and carry a bucket. But once she falls in love, she immediately transforms into a weak woman who cannot carry her shoulders, lift her hands, and understands nothing.
Why? Has a relationship deteriorated?
No, it’s because of boyfriend power.
This kind of boyfriend power is not only physical, but also ideological.
In fact, girls like the feeling of being led. They hope that their partner can make them admire them. Mature boys have more experience and can give them a lot of advice and guidance. With them, girls will be protected. The feeling of growing up.
Of course, I know that many of our little brothers are still very young and may not have that rich experience, but many times you can also be her teammate, giving her strength and you at critical moments. The suggestion is also a kind of guidance.
For example, when she is worried about work, you can hand her a cup of hot milk tea and say: "I heard that hot milk tea goes better with winter. I hope you drink it and feel better. Then, Leave the rest of your unhappiness to me and let me find a solution for you."
In fact, at this time, whether the matter is resolved or not is not the most important. What is important is that you are by her side and can help. She suggested that this kind of spiritual security is warmer than milk tea.
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