Although we should not restrict our girlfriends from communicating with the opposite sex during a relationship, if your girlfriend has a close male best friend, I think most men will not be able to accept it. If you object to your girlfriend, she will retort to you and say, "We are just good friends, it's nothing." Instead, she will blame you for being too controlling? Let’s talk about what to do if your girlfriend can’t accept having a male best friend?
1. Frankly express your thoughts
Intimate partners do not need to hide and hint at this or that. If there is something, they can speak frankly and negotiate to solve the problem. You are jealous if your girlfriend has a close relationship with her male best friend, you don’t like her male best friend, and you don’t believe in any pure friendship with the opposite sex. If your girlfriend has a male best friend and you can't accept it, just say it directly, regardless of whether your girlfriend has any unnecessary thoughts about this male best friend, or whether the male best friend has expressed that she likes your girlfriend. Anyone who continues to have a close relationship with someone of the opposite sex would feel uncomfortable even though he or she has a boyfriend. The purpose of falling in love is to be happy, and there is no worry left over to be happy. So why can't you just tell your thoughts frankly and ask your girlfriend to be considerate and accommodate you?
If your girlfriend is willing to understand your mood, then the two of you can live your own life. If you express your dissatisfaction, your girlfriend still can't keep a distance from your male best friend for your sake (normal communication is actually completely fine), and she may even break up with you for the friendship she claims has been for many years. Most of the time this happens when you break up with your current boyfriend because your boyfriend doesn't trust you, suspects you are being petty, etc. Then your best friend confesses your love and they are together. Then wish them happiness, and if you help them, you will also help yourself.
2. Make your girlfriend jealous
Since your girlfriend can have a close male bestie, , then you can also have a girl with small hair. When your girlfriend is having a lively chat with a male best friend you can talk to, you might as well find a girl friend of your own (if you don’t have a girl friend, you can also find a female friend). Chat more to enhance your relationship and let your girlfriend experience it. What is the feeling of jealousy?
If your girlfriend starts to express dissatisfaction with you, then tell her what it means to do to others what you don’t want others to do to you. If she can’t avoid getting along with her male best friend, why should she ask you to stay with her female friend? With distance, your girlfriend will naturally restrain herself.
If your girlfriend doesn’t care at all about how you talk and date with your girlfriend, then she may not love you at all. She may be in love with her male best friend? In this case, it is your own relief to make plans early.
Of course, men cannot interfere in the normal communication between girlfriends and the opposite sex. When they find out that their girlfriends have male best friends, You can observe the relationship between your girlfriend and your boyfriend. Normal chatting and normal interactions are normal, but try to avoid being alone. If you must meet aloneLet her tell you the truth and not lie to you. Also, you must not secretly look at other people's chat history, and you must trust her. Of course, the relationship cannot be too close. If it is, you have to remind her, tell her how you feel, and let her handle it on her own.
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