During a blind date, some people are not very good at chatting and have not prepared the topic in advance, so it is easy for the topic to lead to a heavy and depressing direction. A blind date is usually the first meeting between two people who have never met before. , heavy and depressing topics will naturally easily arouse the disgust of the blind date, so how to chat with the blind date, and how to avoid heavy and depressing topics?
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Of course, you need to prepare the topics in advance. Let me share with you some suitable topics to talk about during a blind date. This way, chatting will not only keep you from being lonely, but also avoid heavy and depressing topics.
1. You can chat with each other
Everyone’s focus is on themselves, and they should guide the other party to share and show themselves through open-ended questions. For example, you can do this Say: "Hey, what do you usually like to do?" The other party will usually reply with a few hobbies, and then extend the information points of the other party's reply. It would be better if the other party has the same hobbies as you. If you find a common topic, just No need to worry about a cold date.
2. You can talk about yourself
It is necessary to show yourself appropriately , of course, it is taboo to brag, show off, and pretend to be X. Anyone with a discerning eye can see it at a glance. If you leave a girl with the image of a gentleman, a motivated, and a warm man by showing yourself off, then the possibility of your subsequent blind date is very high.
The best way to show yourself is to tell stories, embed details, values ??and pictures into the stories, and use storytelling to cause emotional fluctuations in the other party. For example, if you talk about food, you can tell the girl about the time when you first learned to cook. It is best to be precise about the time, place, dish name, etc. Only in this way can the story leave a deep impression on the girl.
3. You can find topics from the surrounding environment
If you feel that you have finished talking about the topic, you can look at things you can see around you. Get started. For example, if you see an advertisement or celebrity endorsement outside the window, you can chat with a girl about the advertisement or celebrity; for example, if you see a beggar passing by, you can chat with a girl about your views on beggars, etc.
4. You can talk about travel or experiences
Let’s just leave Everyone longs for travel. You can talk to girls about where you want to travel, what interesting things happened during the trip, where you plan to travel in the future, etc. In this way, you can not only show your broadened horizons to the other party, And it can also reflect your own hobbies and tastes inadvertently.
5. You can laugh at yourself appropriately
If you chat with humor, the topic will naturally not be heavy or depressing. Self-deprecation is the highest level of humor. When many boys meet with their blind date, they usually show off their strengths and brag about how successful their career is and how vast the world they have seen. In fact, this will only arouse the disgust of the blind date. .
We might as well laugh at ourselves about our shortcomings appropriately. For example, when you are chatting in silence, you can laugh at yourself and say: "I am so straight. I don't know what to say when I get nervous." In this way, the other party will find you humorous and generous, and be willing to continue dating you.
Of course, if you run out of topics during the blind date chat, you can also use keywords to extend it. We Every sentence you say will provide important keywords, such as a simple sentence "The weather is good today". Weather is the keyword in this sentence. As long as we talk around this "weather", we can build many topics to talk about. When talking to each other, you can naturally avoid heavy and depressing topics.
Another thing to know is that chatting is an interactive process between two parties. You not only have to capture the other party’s keywords to build a conversation, but you also need to know how to throw your own keywords to the other party so that the other party can reply. I can answer the call when the time comes.
For example:
Female: "The weather is good today" - keyword weather
< p> Man: "Yeah, it rained a lot the past few days and I was very depressed. Maybe God heard that we were going on a date today, so it cleared up on purpose."Woman: "Haha, you really know how to say, You can also know God’s thoughts.”
Male: “Because it gave me a dream when I slept last night, saying that I would meet a charming young lady today.”
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