How to strike up a conversation alone in a bar? Many people have asked me before, what should I pay attention to when striking up a conversation in a bar? Should you strike up a conversation at a bar? So today I’m going to talk to you about the techniques for picking up conversations in bars.
Find a friend who has the same goals as you
When we want to strike up a conversation, we always feel There are all kinds of pressures from the outside world, especially in the beginning. However, there are many, many men like you in the bar. They also wanted to get close to a certain girl tonight, but they didn't dare to take action because of their inner timidity. In this case, we need to make friends with them first, and then organize ourselves into a small group. With a group facilitation, we can encourage each other to strike up conversations with girls we want to strike up conversations with. Of course, this is only a small factor in striking up a conversation at a bar.
Let the girl you want to chat with notice your social status
Now that you have a team, you need to build momentum and don’t let yourself look at your stuff like a fool. The girl ran over immediately. By striking up a conversation, your neediness will be exposed. We need to keep walking around with friends, chatting and drinking, so that girls can feel the social dominance you bring and make you appear to be the protagonist in the whole bar. In this case, we can pay attention to the girl's feelings. If she keeps peeking at you, it means she has something to do with you.
In the process of striking up a conversation, we need to pay attention to the friends around the other person
Now that we have wingmen and friends , with social authentication, we also need to pay attention to the social status around the girl. In such a complex social environment, it is very likely that other people will strike up a conversation with her besides accident. Or the current status of her best friend, don’t just think that your purpose is enough to strike up a conversation, because when we strike up a conversation, we also need to take care of the other person’s friends. If the girl you are chatting with is already very interested in you, but she is disgusted with your best friend, then the girl is likely to be pulled away by her best friend or directly unfriendly to you.
After we strike up a conversation, we must consider the process
After striking up a conversation, we must find a way to separate your target from her friends to some extent. You can continue to heat up the relationship, otherwise your partner may not be able to achieve the relationship you want because of the presence of friends around you. Here we can ask her to accompany you to the bathroom, or go out to buy a pack of cigarettes and have a late-night snack. These are better programs. The purpose is to let your target be alone with you, and then enhance the relationship between us, hold hands, hug waists, and then enjoy the ambiguous atmosphere in the bar
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