The most common mistakes boys make when chasing girls_1

★ Posted on 01-25,2025



Different boys will behave differently when pursuing girls. Some will be able to pursue girls, while others will fail. There is no standard answer on how to chase girls, but the methods are similar. The key is that they suit you and conform to the girls’ views. Here are some misunderstandings about boys chasing girls. These mistakes are often made by boys.

1. Blindness and loss of self

If you love someone, you can humble yourself to the dust. People who understand think you sacrifice too much and love too deeply, while people who don't understand think you have no opinion and no self. At the beginning of a relationship, the most common mistake is to give the best to the other person at once, to have the best in everything, and to cooperate unconditionally in all aspects, because you like it, want to express it to the other person, and want her to understand and look forward to it. She is receptive and moved. But the fact is that girls will think you are unreliable, immature, and not stable enough. What girls want is to be able to look up to their significant other outside and be pampered by him like an idol at home, rather than hoping that the other half will always revolve around them. Therefore, you cannot lose yourself when you fall in love. What the other party needs to examine is you as a person, and your behavior must be able to prove yourself, rather than just requiring you to perform various flattering behaviors.

2. Arrogant and busy showing off

When boys prove themselves, they will be a little impatient and deliberately reveal brand-name watches, electronic products, etc. You may want to wait for her to ask No matter how proud you are of saying that you earned it yourself and showing your independence and ability to make money, in the eyes of girls, these are a bit of a nouveau riche act, and even a bit childish. Ordinary people say that the more you lack something, the more you lack. The more you show off, your lack of confidence may mean you are seeking approval from others, and she doesn't want to think about whether you are really confident or fake vanity. Anyway, she already thinks you are arrogant and superficial. Therefore, the way of pursuit and expression skills should be simple. Don’t add so many colorful things. Give her the simplest but most secure way, such as: protecting her when crossing the road and walking on the inside, and asking about her favorite food. It’s good to be proactive, it doesn’t have to be expensive, but it does have to be thoughtful.

3. Eager to confirm the relationship

I have to say that there are still big differences in the thinking of boys and girls. If a boy chats with a girl, some of them have not been chatting for long. , suddenly became ambiguous. I think I am mature, but I don’t know that in the eyes of girls, this kind of greasy and quick success is disgusting and completely ruins the little beauty at the beginning. Being careful means that you are serious and not just playing around. Therefore, when a boy is chasing a girl, don't be ambiguous easily, don't learn to make inappropriate jokes when they are not familiar with each other, and make the relationship good before confirming the relationship. As a friend, do not break the rules and give each other enough space and respect. Slowly, she will get used to your presence. Slowly, there will always be a chance to get closer, and the right time is crucial. Waiting together After that, it will beA very wonderful memory.

It is difficult to get a relationship. Some people don’t get it, and some people don’t know how to cherish it. Every good relationship has a good beginning, so when pursuing a girl, you must avoid fatal mistakes so as not to miss the right person.


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